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Integrative Spirituality: Grounded Contemporary Perspectives

Posted on May 5th, 2007 by Julian : integral healer Julian
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This is part one of the seven part Zymposium - go here for the wrap up and full list of links to all seven brilliant posts/discussion fora.

Surface and Depth

There is a famous quote from one of the early Transpersonal Psychologists, Jack Engler, "You have to be someone before you can be no-one."

This is a very simple and direct way of acknowledging a developmental process. In my workshop series and new 8 CD lecture and yoga class series Radical Transformation: A Map to Mind-Body Ecstasy, I use the chakra system as a way to talk about both the  developmental process and the mind-body connection. So I'd like to start by using some of the core themes from those lectures as a way to make some distinctions that I think are important for integrative spirituality. I will briefly touch on: experience vs interpretation, conscious mind vs unconscious mind, ego strength vs ego defense, healthy anger vs toxic anger, compassion vs codependence, insight vs belief, literal vs symbolic and of course prerational vs transrational - for more please consult the CD lectures.

Now it might help to start off by defining what I mean by integrative spirituality. My sense of it is a spirituality that integrates attention to mind and body, integrates Eastern and Western approaches, and integrates psychological and spiritual techniques and frameworks.

This is what Transpersonal Psychology set out to do in the 70's, following on from Jung and Maslow and in the wake of the 60's psychedelic mind-expansion, fascination with Eastern myticism and the important work of people like Alan Watts and Joseph Campbell. This zeitgeist produced the extraordinary work of Ken Wilber, Stan Grof, Jack Kornfield, John Welwood, Jack Engler and other brilliant theorists, clinicians, and serious spiritual practitioners.

One of the key observations in this movement has been looked at from different angles that are all related to the above quote from Engler.  Wilber's famous essay The Pre/Trans Fallacy, Welwood's concept of "spiritual bypassing,"  Stan Grof's observation about the "flight toward the light," and much of Kornfield's work points to the problem of non-integrative spirituality  being used in the service of avoiding dealing with the necessary awareness work and emotional healing that continuing development and integration require. In other words, spirituality itself (especially spirituality based in magic, mythic and metaphysical beliefs)  can become a defense against actual spiritual and psychological growth.

As far as working in an integrative way -  I  think of both mind and body as having surface and depth components. There is the (surface) conscious mind and the (depth) unconscious mind, each being home to the ego and the Self. The surface level has to do with mental focus, intentionality and ego-strength, as well as cognitive development, critical thinking, symbol interpretation. Goal-setting, Cognitive Reframing, Concentration and even Witnessing meditations are good here, as well as intellectual pursuits that refine critical and symbolic analysis.

Too little surface mind work and one can be very undisciplined, caught up in drama, chronically self-sabotaging etc..

The depth component of the mind invites us beneath the surface - Vipassana, Tonglen and Lovingkindness meditation, psychotherapy, Holotropic Breathwork, certain kinds of yoga, bodywork, and ecstatic dance, all can take us into that shamanic type space where the defenses come down and we go through an experiential process of working with repressed emotions, painful memories, insecurities and traumas held in the unconscious, as well as archetypal imagery, self-parenting and the arising of insight into our personal process and the universal human condition.

As is more often the case than not - too much surface mind work at the expense of depth mind work can create a kind of over-identification with beliefs, an overvaluing of the power of intention, an emphasis on controlling both reality and one's feelings through the mind, and - as should be obvious, a lack of depth in terms of the psyche/soul.

The less common problem has to do with too much destabilizing depth work and not enough of the grounding, calming, focusing ego-strength buiding of the surface work.

One corrolary to this is a kind of unboundaried overabundance of intuitive awareness with a lack of either the structure of ego-strength or the awareness of the depth work - such that the intuitive stream is often undifferentiated from one's shadow material, projections etc and ends up being overly literalized in a kind of superstitious way. Many sensitive and/or traumatized  poeple drawn to spirituality take this route.

In Jungian terminology, this alchemical process is one of creating/strengthening the "ego/Self axis." Another way of saying this is that we open up more of a connection between the deep Self and the surface ego. Overall  the healthy psychospiritual process creates a stronger channel of communication between the surface and depth, between our conditioned external self and our authentic inward experience, feelings, needs, thoughts and aspirations. It also frees up blocked energy from unresolved conflicts and allows both the developmental process along several lines to continue and the integrative resonance between those different lines to be more harmonious. When I use the word "lines" I am referring to the Integral concept and specifically for my purposes I am interested in the cognitive, emotional, spiritual, and kinesthetic lines of development.

Another doorway in is to talk about the relationship between intention and process. The intention (surface) creates a doorway into a process (depth) which in turn will re-shape the intention as well as the ego setting the intention through input from the Self. It's a feedbaclk loop.

The Self is constantly communicating with us through things like dreams, intuitions, projections, fantasies, emotions, psychosomatic symptoms. Think of the (deep) Self as being more authentically in touch with what is really going on under the surface of the defenses (rationalization, denial, magical thinking, projection etc) - the Self has a clearer picture of the whole of our experience and has acccess to the disowned shadow material of emotions, desires, experiences, resources and archetypes that our ego has not yet learned to tolerate, actualize, and integrate.

As to the body, I think of the body too as having a surface component in it's structural anatomy and a depth component in it's organ system, glandular and blood chemistry. The surface component of the body is well addressed by physical practices like yoga, other forms of excercise and various kinds of bodywork/massage. The depth component can be well addressed by organ cleansing, nutrition, supplement protocols and the benefits of detoxifying sweat and nervous and glandular system stimulation and modulation created by exercise - particularly in this case - yoga and ecstatic dance.

So in terms of addresing surface and depth in both mind and body - the integrative approach I apply is to synergize finely tuned physical practices that allow space for process with  with nutritional cleansing/supplementation and various meditation techniques that train for different skills.

This combination of anatomical, spiritual and psychological approaches adds up to an energetic initiation that is quite profound - and a new heightened awareness of the mind-body connection/process.

Altered States, Kundalini, Unwinding


At their most essential level meditation, yoga, breathwork, psychotherapy and dance all are ways to access a revelatory experience of not just the mind-body connection, but a kind of dropped-in awareness field in which the innate intelligence of the bodymind can rebalance, unwind, spontaneously express and begin to awaken to it's deeper energetic and awareness capacities. Part of  this revelatory process can include the arising of the altered state awakenings and psychophysical phenomena attributed in the East to Kundalini and in the West to the somato-psychic wave, somatic discharge, unwinding etc...

These states are accesible at any level of one's developmental process. For the purposes of this discussion let's say that these altered state/energetic processes can arise while one's "altitude" is centered in any of the chakras and can also be the result of an unresolved strand of experience (or even what Grof calls a Co-ex system) emerging from any of the chakras/developmental levels. To clarify, i should say that I think of the chakras as being a) anatomical structures: key "high-charge" muscles, glands, organs, nerve plexi,  b) a way of talking about how the inward experience of the body in a particular physical area resonates emotions and energetic qualities, and c) a metaphorical/imaginal way of talking about mind-body matrix and it's developmental and healing processes.

Being Someone


So, to return to our starting point - if you have to be someone to be no-one, what does this mean? One has to have a strong, healthy ego, or sense of self, in order to healthily engage in any kind of transcendence of that ego or sense of self. In terms of my chakra model this means that the developmental process in chakras one through three has to be pretty solid in order to move forward to chakras four though seven in a healthy way. Now of course, chakras one through three have to do with several key issues: the right to exist, survival, taking pleasure in our physicality, emotional and sexual trust, gender identity/value, object relations, sense of self, boundaries,  will, self-esteem, to name a few...

The difficulty of course comes in two forms: first, whether we realize it or not, most of us have fairly serious unresolved issues in these earlier chakra levels and second, many if not most people interested in spirituality have come to a spiritual path out of some kind of pain, suffering, longing for something that we do not have/feel. So spirituality actually is a bit of a magnet for wounded people. Now, if the kind of spirituality that is encountered is not integrative, it will likely perpetuate the very defenses (denial, rationalization, magical thinking) that are keeping the ego and the Self from being in an integrated fluid relationship. Often there is so much static because of the elaborate beliefs that people take on in the name of spirituality that it is almost impossible at first to be in touch with any real feelings, to enter into any authentic process of going beneath the surface and listening to the psyche, the body-intelligence, the heart wisdom. Intention is often held up as a supreme control mechanism instead of just step one of a process of going within and healing/growing. Intention is given a kind of literalized magic power to affect outer reality, instead of being understood as a way to focus the mind enough to go under the defensive omnipotent fantasies into the places of vulnerability wherein lies the true gift - our disowned aspects of self.

So in this sense "integrative" also means to integrate the aspects of our experience, feelings, needs, potentials that we have relegated to the unconscious because of various disturbances in healthy development in the first three chakras. It is in defense against dealing with this very primal and often painful material that a kind of prepersonal spirituality can spring up - one that dissociates from having to deal with these feelings and usually judges them as unspiritual, too attached, egoic etc - all as a kind of oversimplified misreading of outdated yogic/buddhist philosophy, and then also buys into various prerational metaphysical explanations for how reality works and how everything from your bank balance to your happiness is a function of your intention or will manifesting.

Distinctions


So let's talk a little about the third chakra in my system. I want to start by making a much-needed distinction between ego-strength and ego-defense. We have a social convention of saying that someone with a lot of bravado and conceit who needs to be the center of attention has a big ego. This is technically incorrect - they actually have a small ego - but a big ego-defense. Another way to say it is that they are lacking in ego-strength and are over compensating with an ego-defense. The last thing this person actually needs to do is have their ego cut down to size by more meditation and fierce diet of transcendence. Why? because you have to somone to be no-one. You need a healthy strong ego before you can drop your ego-defenses. How do you develop ego-strength? well, it comes own to internalizing the kinds of positive feedback that only a small number of people in your life can ever really give you. It has to do with a very vulnerable, very young part of us not having received love, acceptance and the kind of mirroring that allowed a strong sense of self to be internalized.

Now, if one is suffering from low self-esteem it is not enough, nor is it integrative, to simply try to set an intention to be more confident - even if it works it is still at some level just an act. Authentic confidence will develop over time from learning how to be present and loving with the insecure part of yourself. Lovingkindness meditation, certain approaches  to practices like yoga and dance, and certain psychotherapeutic techniques (not to mention the healing relationship with a good practitioner) can support that process of that healing inner re-parenting.

Kohut is really the master here: We have a primary narcissism as children that is entirely appropriate and that is asking to be mirrored. We need to feel important, special, loved, accepted, admired etc... If this happens for us we relinquish the primary narcissism with an internalized positive sense of self that can tolerate the disappointments, unfairness and struggles of life as we continue growing. If this does not happen sufficiently  and/or if there is abandonment or invasion trauma - then we deveop a secondary nasrcissism that is still attempting to get those needs met and that is part of the coping structure of a poorly developed sense of self (low ego strength) that has a hard time tolerating how unfair, disapppointing and out of my control reality actually is....

On to our second distinction: healthy anger vs toxic anger. i think of anger as a third chakra energy. Healthy anger sets boundaries, communicates violations, expresses moral outrage. Healthy anger can be channeled into hard work, creativity, passionate engagement. Healthy anger can create real intimacy - because it is honest and direct. Toxic anger is usually tied to some kind of repressive cycle such that it builds up and needs to be discharged either by out of proportion reactivity or passive agression. Healthy anger is a function of ego-strength. Toxic anger is usually part of an ego-defense.

Compassion vs Codependence


Now if we are "someone" - meaning if we have a healthy sense of self or ego strength, then we can develop compassion. Compassion in the sense of being able to imagine another's suffering - precisely because we can tolerate feeling our own suffering. Compassion is distinct from codependence. In codependence we imagine that we can fix the other person's suffering and then they will give us the love that we need or then they will admire us in the way that we need. Codependence can also be a kind of merging with another person, whereas from the healhty differentiation of ego-strength we can both imagine how someone's suffering feels and know that it is their suffering and not ours. Being able to imagine their feelings allows us to empathize, knowing where their feelings end and ours begin allows us to not be overwhelmed or burdened in such a way that we might shut down - or try to shut them down. Codependent dynamics based in an inability to tolerate the reality of suffering in ourselves and others are extremely common in non-integrative spirituality and give rise to all sorts of defensive beliefs that are the orthodox lingua franca in some circles.

As we engage in practices that allow development and healing to occur, insight arises. Insight is distinct from belief in one simple way: belief is an outside-in phenomenon. Insight is as the word suggests an inside-out phenomenon. In other words imposing a belief that one has decided is worthwhile, or that one has heard is spiritually correct is very different from going through a process that allows insight to emerge experientially.

Symbolic Thinking and Existential Initiation

As we continue to develop into the higher cognitive stages of what Piaget called formal operations and beyond to what theorists like Wilber and Gebser  have called vision logic and integral cogntion, we develop deepening abilities to understand systems of meaning, poetic and archetypal symbolism and spiritual metaphor. From these stages we are able to reclaim what the rational stage  cast off from the literal mythic and magic stages of development and reinterpret it through the symbolic lense of our deeper more sophisticated capacities.

Personally I feel that the great initiation into genuine transpersonal spirituality has to do with integrating the hard-won development of cognitive, emotional and spiritual lines into an existential awakening to the mindblowing miraculous sacredness of reality as it is in a way that redefines the old world ways of using those terms and finally understands that words like god and spirit actually refer to our own complete true nature and have been a way of trying to wake up to ourselves all along. In that moment the mysterious and the mundane are revealed as one and the same and any metaphysical construct that needs to somehow look outside of reality as it is is seen as a ghostly substitute for this one brutal, beautiful, unfair, magnificent, tragic, grace-filled ride through the inner and outer cosmos.

It doesn't interest me if there is one God or many gods.

I want to know if you belong or feel abandoned.

If you know despair or can see it in others.

I want to know if you are prepared to live in the world with its harsh need to change you. If you can look back with firm eyes saying this is where I stand.

I want to know if you know how to melt into that fierce heat of living falling toward the center of your longing.

I want to know if you are willing to live, day by day, with the consequence of love and the bitter unwanted passion of sure defeat.

I have been told, in that fierce embrace, even the gods speak of God.

~David Whyte


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Julian : integral healer
7 minutes later
Julian said

many hyperlinks will be added to the above text  in the morning!

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
about 3 hours later
Grey said

Very nice, Julian. You certainly have set the bar pretty high for the rest of us! ;-)

Bob : Head the gong
about 7 hours later
Bob said

Great stuff Julian. Unfortunately, I’m rushing off to the hospital for a marathon shift, and will not have time for in-depth commentary until tomorrow. Thanks for getting this party started in such grand fashion.

–Bob

Jim : artist, etc.
about 8 hours later
Jim said

Well done, Julian! I've been looking forward to your post in this series since you announced it. I'll just make a few comments.

You mention “over-identification with beliefs” stemming from too much surface work at the expense of depth work. I am reminded of Wilber's distinction between what he calls “translation” versus “authentic transformation” (especially in his 1997 essay, “A Spirituality That Transforms,” which first appeared in What Is Enlightenment magazine and was later reprinted in Wilber's book One Taste). “[H]elpful translations” are necessary, but are–or should be–transitional. Translation involves beliefs, “a new way to think or feel about reality.” Authentic transformation, on the other hand, “is not a matter of belief but of the death of the believer.” Or as one of my teachers used to say, there is no transformation without “loss of face.” Depth work is often painful for it can undermine the self-image, including the spiritualized self-image that so many who are drawn to spiritual (and integral, transformational, etc.) paths tend to build up.

You say that “[m]any sensitive and/or traumatized people drawn to spirituality” take a route that entails a lack of differentiation between the intuitive stream and shadow material and projections, etc., and this “ends up being overly literalized in a kind of superstitious way.” I think the relationship between trauma and what may be referred to as “flight toward the light” or simply “ascent-bias” warrants more attention than it tends to get. Again this relates to how depth work–and “depth” of course refers not only to psychological depths but to somatic depths or the psyche in and as the body–is sometimes avoided by spiritual aspirants because it is often painful. To go into the depths is to meet not only personal trauma but the trauma of the human condition. It's all too easy to leap to a kind of “we are gods” or “we are always already enlightened” or “we are perfect just as we are” mindset, and thus avoid our rawness, vulnerability, tenderness, and humanity.

You say, “Codependent dynamics based in an inability to tolerate the reality of suffering in ourselves and others are extremely common in non-integrative spirituality and give rise to all sorts of defensive beliefs that are the orthodox lingua franca in some circles.” Yes, some who are drawn to spirituality seem intent on denying the reality of suffering, and thus we often hear talk about how suffering doesn't “really” exist, and how suffering is really an illusion, etc. A line from the movie The Last King of Scotland comes to mind, where one character tells another (who is about to be tortured), that (and I will paraphrase), “We are real. This room is real. And your death may be the first thing in your life that is real.”

One last comment, related to what you wrote about a distinction between healthy anger and toxic anger. I would say that healthy anger isn't really anger, and that anger in general is a “destructive emotion” as some contemporary Buddhists put it. This is a difficult issue, for as most of us no doubt know, there is a very real difference between genuine compassion and what Trungpa called “grandmother compassion” or “idiot compassion.” We don't want to repress anger, nor do we want to act it out, nor do we want to lie to ourselves and others by pretending that our anger is really “bodhisattva” behavior.

Again, excellent post, Julian, you've touched on a lot of imporant territory!

Jim

Annie : Student of life
about 8 hours later
Annie said

An excellent summary of your work. Those who are living this process have experienced the power of it. Lots of hard work, not always pretty, and no quick fixes. Sounds like Life…

Balder : Kosmonaut
about 8 hours later
Balder said

Looks good, Julian!  I just skimmed it this morning, as I'm on my way to jury duty.  I'll return to it and read it more carefully this afternoon…

Julian : integral healer
about 11 hours later
Julian said

thanks everyone - yea i got into it - had to inda hold back on elaboratingeach paragraph into another 3 or 4 paragraphs……. i guess i chose a complex subject that i love to riff on….

jonny bardo : imagicosmologist
about 11 hours later
jonny bardo said

Wonderful post, Julian! And a worthy beginning to this symposium. I like how you combine a broad overview with focused insight—truly well done.

A few comments on specifics to follow…

One corrolary to this is a kind of unboundaried overabundance of intuitive awareness with a lack of either the structure of ego-strength or the awareness of the depth work - such that the intuitive stream is often undifferentiated from one's shadow material, projections etc and ends up being overly literalized in a kind of superstitious way. Many sensitive and/or traumatized  poeple drawn to spirituality take this route.

This is an interesting and important observation, and reminds me of Rudolf Steiner's views on the difference between what he called “spiritual science” and the psychism that was rampant in the late 19th century—which correlates with the channeling of the last forty years or so. Steiner emphasized—as elaborated in Richard Leviton's excellent The Imagination of Pentecost: Rudolf Steiner and Contemporary Spirituality –the importance of engaging the “spiritual realms” (the transperonal) from the foundation of a strong ego and intellect, and in an empirical fashion (thus “science”), rather than through the mediumistic method of unconscious or semi-conscious channeling. The main problem being, among others, the potential for tainted information and, as you might put it, mythic concrete beliefs, without an understanding of hermeneutics.

The Self is constantly communicating with us through things like dreams, intuitions, projections, fantasies, emotions, psychosomatic symptoms. Think of the (deep) Self as being more authentically in touch with what is really going on under the surface of the defenses (rationalization, denial, magical thinking, projection etc) - the Self has a clearer picture of the whole of our experience and has acccess to the disowned shadow material of emotions, desires, experiences, resources and archetypes that our ego has not yet learned to tolerate, actualize, and integrate.

I might take this a step further: rather than the Self having a “clearer picture,” it has a crystal clear picture in that it is the Witness of whatever arises. The realm of its communication is “between” the causal and the mental, what has been called the soul or daimon. Thus, again, the importance of a strong, healthy ego—and intellect: we all “receive” communication from the Self in that we all have dreams, intuitions, and visions; but the key is how we interpret what we—as the mental-verbal self—experience/intuit.

….spirituality actually is a bit of a magnet for wounded people. Now, if the kind of spirituality that is encountered is not integrative, it will likely perpetuate the very defenses (denial, rationalization, magical thinking) that are keeping the ego and the Self from being in an integrated fluid relationship.

While I agree with your point here, I think you over-emphasize the “kind” of spirituality, rather than what one “does” with whatever type of practice they are engaged in. How we eat is just as important as what we eat (see, for example, Marc David's excellent The Slow Down Diet). The shadow and/or blind aspects of ego have a way of co-opted whatever modalities one is engaged with, which is why spiritual materialism is rampant no matter what “kind” of spirituality.

Again, my point is how is at least as important as what.

I liked your differentiations between healthy and pathological variants of different emotions and psychological structures. I wonder, however, what “healthy anger” looks like at higher developmental levels. For example, you list “moral outrage” as an expression of healthy anger, yet I question whether at higher waves/altitudes moral outrage would even arise, or at least whether it would arise in a different form.

As we engage in practices that allow development and healing to occur, insight arises. Insight is distinct from belief in one simple way: belief is an outside-in phenomenon. Insight is as the word suggests an inside-out phenomenon. In other words imposing a belief that one has decided is worthwhile, or that one has heard is spiritually correct is very different from going through a process that allows insight to emerge experientially.

This is a very helpful observation. One potential problem that we must be aware of, however, is the difficulty in differentiating between insight and belief both in ourselves and in others, especially when disagreement occurs. It is all too easy to assign another's view as based on “mere belief” simply because it differs with our own (supposed) insight.

Personally I feel that the great initiation into genuine transpersonal spirituality has to do with integrating the hard-won development of cognitive, emotional and spiritual lines into an existential awakening to the mindblowing miraculous sacredness of reality as it is in a way that redefines the old world ways of using those terms and finally understands that words like god and spirit actually refer to our own complete true nature and have been a way of trying to wake up to ourselves all along. In that moment the mysterious and the mundane are revealed as one and the same and any metaphysical construct that needs to somehow look outside of reality as it is is seen as a ghostly substitute for this one brutal, beautiful, unfair, magnificent, tragic, grace-filled ride through the inner and outer cosmos.

This is beautifully said and I am completely with you on this. I would, however, amend your phrase of “genuine transpersonal spirituality” to “genuine integral/existential spirituality,” because what you describe here is an integral interpretive framework. Other interpretive frameworks can still be authentically transpersonal, but what you are talking about is how we interpret the transpersonal. Your framing of “god” and “spirit” is still interpretive, albeit more integral than previous magic, mythic or metaphysical views. In other words, you are still interpreting the Ineffable—which is just fine, and the beauty of the mind. But the point is that no matter how integral or comprehensive our current framework, it can and will always be superceded…'tis the nature of evolution, after all!

The “moment the mysterious and the mundae are revealed as one” can arise within just about any cultural context, any interpretive framework. But we should be careful to differentiate between that moment and how we interpret it, for when we say that “words like god and spirit actually refer to…” we are interpreting, concluding, limiting the ineffable. Again, this is fine and he beauty of the mind, but the “moment” cannot truly or adequately or fully be “referred to,” no matter how integral our view might be.

I look forward to discussion and the rest of the symposium—thanks for this opportunity, Julian!

Hokai : In Absentia
about 11 hours later
Hokai said

Hey, your dudeness! This is a fine survey of some major distinctions that, if not clarified, graciously provide headaches to many seekers. Thank you for opening.:-)

about 13 hours later
Patrick said

Nice text Julian.

Your views concerning the psyche and its dynamic seem to follow closely psychology of the self (Kohut and the like). The unconscious or depth component is composed, according to your definition of Shadow material (traumas and the like) and some constructive or energy feeding things like “self-parenting” “archetypal imagery” “and insight into our personal process and the unversal human condition”.

I liked Wilber's view of more than one unconscious, as described in “The Atman Project”. It seems an interesting map to describe the experiences we see in humans, as opposed to one unconscious which is like a basket full of what we want him to be full of!

Another point: No need of the concept of the pre/trans fallacy in your model..isn't it?

Keep up the flame and the work,

With love Patrick

MrTeacup : Celestial Accounts Receivable Dept.
about 14 hours later
MrTeacup said

Interesting stuff, Julian, and an astute analysis of the issues facing spiritual seekers today.

I think there's a cultural aspect to the chronic low self-worth many people experience, since this phenomenon is virtually unheard of in more communal cultures. Starting at infancy, the virtues of individuality, independence and non-conformity are pressed into our heads, to the detriment of many people. The thinking seems to be that low self-esteem is the catalyst for productivity. Unconditional love is purposely withheld, forcing chronically alienated individuals to work desperately hard to earn the affection of family and friends. Even the name we assign it – “self” esteem – implies that it is a primarily individualistic concern, and that conceals the fact that often, low self-esteem is caused by internalizing deeply conditional cultural values.

We need to feel important, special, loved, accepted, admired – but these are conditional attributes. The main reason we focus on them is because in this culture, people who are perceived to have those attributes are given a level of acceptance and value that's unavailable to most of us. Though still conditional (one can become unimportant, or cease to be special), these attributes are seen to offer a greater level of security in an insecure world.

I suggest we do one better: offer unconditional acceptance to the unimportant, the ordinary and the everyday, in ourselves and in others.

~MrTeacup

~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker
about 15 hours later
~C4Chaos said

excellent post! thanks for the links. my only suggestion is that, moving forward, it would be better to keep it a bit shorter, and/or focused on certain key areas. this way, the comments will be focused as well. for example, there are too many topics for commenting on this post alone. you can always sum it up in a conclusion post where you bring everything together into one cohesive post ;)

having said that, i'd like to comment on the chakras. do you think the chakra system is a purely psychological model or does it have physical/biological correlation with our nervous system? what's your take on paranormal/psychic phenomena that are attributed to opening a particular chakra? sorry bro. once you start mentioning chakras and kundalini, you open up this can of worms :)

thought experiment: how would you explain or assist a person suffering/undergoing, kundalini “awakening” without giving them lectures on integral theory? in short, how would you meet them where they're at?

btw, not everyone seems to agree with Wilber's taxonomic system on subtle energies. see this response from Esalen.

“Overall, Murphy emphasized the need for contemporary researchers to remain “theoretical agnostics” or “theoretical pluralists” about phenomena such as the survival hypothesis, the chakra system, and subtle bodies. Until a much richer natural history has been conducted on them, it is difficult to argue for a tight classification system.”

finally, how would you interpret this statement by the late U.G. Krishnamurti?

“I have not set myself up in the 'holy business' of liberating people. I have no particular message for mankind, except to say that all holy systems for obtaining enlightenment are bunk, and that all talk of arriving at a psychological mutation through awareness is poppycock. Psychological mutation is impossible. The natural state can happen only through biological mutation.”

to me it sounds like UG was collapsing everything to the physical (Right Quads). but it's hard to counter the fellow because he was the one who underwent and lived through the actual experience of “waking up.” to say that he has a big/small ego is a projection on our part, because according to him, he is nothing.

that's all for now. i'll leave you a quote from a friend of mine.

“Only those who have awakened know that they were sleeping.”


~C

adam : revolution
about 16 hours later
adam said

great start j. i'll reserve specific comment until this time next week. plenty of time for cross-pollination after this symposium.

mostly good feedback too. focused on the issues, and giving extra distinctions, questions, and references. very encouraging of new learning.

regarding length of your entry as mentioned by c4, it is tricky. the subject requires a broad scope, so the entry will necessarily be somewhat general in nature, but too short and it's hard to say anything meaningful. i think having framed it as a symposium allows for more length than usual in a blog format.

work demands notwithstanding, i think i'll find keeping my entry concise the hardest part…

i think this is a very positive start from you and the comment contributors.

Balder : Kosmonaut
about 17 hours later
Balder said

For folks interested in integrating psychological and spiritual development, particularly drawing on the insights of Object Relations theory and Self Psychology, I recommend checking out two of Almaas' books, The Pearl Beyond Price and The Point of Existence.

Julian : integral healer
about 17 hours later
Julian said

beautiful dialog going on here - thanks everyone!

thanks annie - yea i think so huh?

jimbo - where ya been all my life! hahahaha - excelllent comments that exhibit a deep personal and theoretical understanding o fthe context i am trying to sketch….

JB happy to have sparked some thoughts, disagreements on finer points, and general consensus on a lot. thanks for the commentary!

patrick - cool comments. and yes i think pre/trans is absolutely necessary in this model - but i relate it more explicitly to spiritual bypassing in that it is one's fear of going into the depth work that then supports a tendency to hold prerational beliefs as if they were transrational insights.

teacup - interesting point - would love to hear more from you on this - i think the whole cultural/personal mutually arising variable thing is fascinating…

c4 - yea, i hear you on the length - it just kinda turned out that way - and i left out as much as i could!

case in point - kundalini.

to answer your thought experiment - my work gives people their first experience of kundalini/somato-psychic phenomena on a regular basis for about the last 8 years.

i guide people through that process as part of my work.

the really radical type of scary experience that people like gopi krishna describe is i think a product of a non-integrative approach.

if you have:
a) real space for the psychological/emotional energy release/shadow deluge aspect
b) a non-repressed attitude toward the flowering of full bodied erotic aliveness and riding out the wild physical and emotional unwinding that occurs
c) a physical practice that is allowing the energy to move and keeping you grounded and ion your body
d) a suspension of the need to interpret the phenomena in literal metaphysics as proof of all manner of things and instead a willingness to keep one's critical thinking at hand and stay in the inquiry….

the ride is a lot smoother than the exotic horror stories that came out of the more traditional non-integrative  and even unguided encounters. it is also one of the most natural, beautiful and mind-blowingly liberating things i have had the opportunity to experience and witness! it has made transpesonal, integral and other psychological theory into a living breathing intelligent multidimensional creature for me….

to answer you question more pointedly - most of my regular students know nothing or very little about integral theory and i talk about it only in one workshop series where i use some of the ideas - so yea i guide folks through processes involving energetic awakening, emotional healing, spiritual practices etc all the time without reference to integral theory, but it is a big part of MY context and something i think that all practitioners/teachers can benefit from learning - this is more the crowd i am trying to reach on zaadz with my writing.

for most students it is entirely unnecessary to try and make sense of such a complex theory - that's for the professionals - who i think have a bit of responsibility to make the effort.

in my opinion - from a lot of study and experience in myself and others - what we call the chakras refers to (as i said above) a whole mindbody matrix that has to do with muscle, nerve, gland,organ, emotion, impulse, consciousness, psyche, the eros of the evolutionary drive etc… so i guess that's a - yes!

as to the “psychic” phenomena.

i think that when we start to open up a lot of energy in the bodymind the unconscious gets really stirred up - people can have all manner of experiences form re-living repressed memories, to experiencing deeply held emotions being released,  to an increase in everything from creativity to sex drive to intuitive or emotional sensitivity, to temporary disorientation and destabilization of the ego. all of this can be fascinating and more than a little weird. it is best not to make quick interpretations from this place - especailly regarding notiions opf past-lives, spirit posession, communication form the other side, synchronicity, psychic awareness etc…. when the psyche is in such a fluid place we are very suggestible and also apt to altch onto a familiar simple explanation for what is going on that may not actually eb suppportable in reality. so best to have the experience and leave the interpretations for later.

as wilber hads pointed out  altered states are avialable to anyone, regardless of altitude, but the interpretation of the state will usually eb almost entirely a function of the altitude, right?

in people who have been traumatized to the point of dissociation (more common than we'd like to think..) and in people who have pre-existing propensities for various kinds of psychiatric diagnosis this can result in somewhat psychotic/paranoid manias that may seem at fiirst like psychic or even enlightenment experiences - i have seen it happen…. and have yet to see in my years of experience phenomena like that that i would call psychologically well-grounded or helpful to the person's process - it has (in the four or five times i have seen it - twice with people who studied with me and the other times with people in the general community i exist in) been a fragmentation of the psyche and a mispercieving of unconscious material/messages/aspects as being “other” than the contents of one person's psyche.

so care (and context) is necessary.

i am extremely careful about paying close attention to asessing which people coould potentially go to those fragmented places and slowing them down, helping them to get resourced and in some cases suggesting that they not participate.

that said i have encountered many teachers and facilitators - even those claiming integral-informedness who are pretty confused about the difference between fragmenting/psychotic/paranoid mania and psychic awareness/the gift of enlightened non-duality.

this is not only dangerous and scary, but also a really big a pity because of the hard work has been done by clinicains and theorists on differentiating this stuff for the last 50 years!

all of that said - we are talking about non-ordinary states of consciousness and they are uncannny and fascinating and well worth exploring by people wihout pre-existing psychiatric propensitities and under the right circumstances, set and setting with a grounded and mature guide who knows the territory.

withinn that context many things can and do arise that are hard to explain, mysterious, beutiful and wierd - i don' think though, that they constitute “proof” for a lot of what people would like them to, - ya know?

as to UGK - never really found him particularly interesting - he is a radical nondual rebel who doesnt have an integrative bone in his body. i agree he is doing UR reductionism and he is repeating the kind of pitch that charlatan sages and seers have tried to sell in all cultures at all times. i am no longer impressed by claims of enlightenment and the abolutistic culture bound statements that rest on those claims.

Sa'Rah : Ordered Chaos
about 19 hours later
Sa'Rah said

julian…you never cease to inspire me with your ability to communicate your perspective with such clarity and intelligence…not to mention your ability to facilitate the growth of so many that come to you for transformation and healing…its also entertaining to witness all the different reactions to you and your posts…once a punk rocker, always a punk rocker, eh?…with grace…S.

Julian : integral healer
about 21 hours later
Julian said

thanks sa'rah gem. i am looking forward to ripping up the blog symposium with you soon…

yea crazy stuff man - watcha gonna do? chew on the shadow reflections and cast the rest to the wind…

Delia : rara avis
about 22 hours later
Delia said

sorry to arrive so late to this great symposium…i've been in transit. :)

and actually, i just want to ask 2 questions at this juncture.

1) julian, what do you feel is the purpose of “magical thinking?”

seperate from what other theorists may define it as…what is your personal perspective? do you feel that “magical thinking” serves a purpose? and if so, what is it?

2) how do you perceive people who experience God and Spirit in the personal aspect? Instead of relating spiritually within an impersonal paradigm, they relate/connect within a personal paradigm. And they do so consciously. Perhaps, like Ramakrishna, Kabir, the Gopis, Mirabai, Jesus.

Looking forward to your sage feedback…  :)

btw, the organization, depth, and clarity of delivery on this most recent post is outstanding, j.

:)

Julian : integral healer
about 23 hours later
Julian said

hey d - excellent questions.

1) magical thinking is a way of making sense of a) cause and effect before we have developed the cognitive function to understand it and b) help us overcome the incredible sense of powerlessness and dependency we feel/have as infants and young children - infantile omnipotence etc…

when we are traumatized, existentially in depsair, or feel deeply disempowered by life one response is to regress into that magical thinking as a way to cope - this is ok as far as it goes but it is not actually an effective way to grow, heal or deal with the reality that we are struggling with - it's like the crystal palace that psyche gets stolen away to by eros where he makes passsionate love to her on condition that she never see him, or the doorless tower that rapunzel lives in playing her harpo abnd admiring her hair - shut away from real life & love under the guardianship of the witch….

2) well this one is tough. i think that there is still a place for devotional practices that personify spirit as a way to awaken the heart - but i feel that in our times they have to be tempered with a lot of groundedness and philosophical/psychological clarity.

i think that for the most part the personification of teh divine is a fantasy projection of an all good all powerful parent figure who can help/love us.

this of course is a fine active imagination excercise as long as we don't buy into it as a literla reality.

i am biased but i personally think that just about all belief in god is a defense against facing our mortality and the reality of evil in the world and that when those fears/realities are dealt with and tolerated more effectively the need for god in that mask subsides and a deeper kind of rapture at the uncompromising mystery and unfair horror and beauty of life arises that needs a lot less consolation, especially in the form of soothing fantasy…

i think we dreamt up god to explain all manner of things that have since been understood by science - yet the mystery remains. love and eros and consciousness and imaginationsand art and all of it swirling and doing it's outrageous thing… and that if there is such a thing as god it is beyond our capacity to imagine and believe in…

wolfspirit : i wanna be a cowboy
1 day later
wolfspirit said

Julian -

A good read, overall.

Like ~C4Chaos, I would like to hear more from you on the chakras.

Frankly, I see a rather contradictory stance of yours being a demythologizing, condescending, reductionistic tendency when thinking about God (“I think we dreampt up god to explain all manner of things that have since been understood by science”) that is somewhat bold and offensive, while being soft and sympathetic and lovey-dovey friendly-friendly to the chakra system, which you think is based on anatomy, actual “energies” , and metaphorical/imaginal ways of talking about the mind-body matrix. Unfortunately you don't quite apply the same degree of sympathy to ancient beliefs outside your own prefered tradition, which strikes me as narrow minded (or possibly a symptom of classic denial and projection). Of course, you're welcome to your prejudices, as are we all, but then you have to live with the seemingly contradictory (or at least non-integral) nature of your own strongly held stances.

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
1 day later
Grey said

Yeah, I'm with Joe (wolfspirit) on this one, Julian. A truly integrative (integral) spiritual practice needs to have a second person devotional element, just as much as a first person reflective awareness element, not to mention a third person Gaia-esque element. Get top heavy in any one direction and you risk running into all sorts of problems and limitations.

I'm not suggesting we have to believe in some bearded guy living up in the clouds that will hurl thunderbolts at us if we're bad, but if an image like that works for you, go for it. My point is, we need to practice a well-grounded devotion to Spirit as a second person “out there”, and not focus all of our attention inward to the Spirit inside of us, else we risk getting stuck in the ultimate ego trip.

Namaste

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

thanks joe.

ooh you're gunnin for me!

i have been quite clear i think that i see the chakras as a useful metaphor that refers to a physiological and psychological experiential reality.

i do not literalize the chakras as being 7 balls of energy that match the colors of the rainbow and are visible to psychics who read your aura.  i do not think that having someone to chakra energy clearing on you by laying on of hands works unles you get into a real flesh and bone and psyche process with it….. i find the notion of the chakras as something other than the body and mind to be kinda naive and unnecessary - i am far more interested in the undiscovered mystery of what is as it is.

to me that is the kitsch literalization of the imaginal symbols that do refer to an actual experience that is rooted in a powerful mind-body process and has to do with your unconscious as well as how tension/conflict is held in the body…

i feel the same way about al mythic/imaginal material - it is beautiful and effective if understood as symbolic of a potent experience, but becomes less rich when literalized as being about actual magical beings. IOW archetypes are real - but only within the psyche.

i have very little allegiance to any tradition - leatst of all the old world hindu tradition that the chakras originate in….

however i have potent first hand experience of a powerful energetic process that is recognized cross culturaly and across disciplines from the tantric yogis to the craniosacral therapists to the neo-reichian therapists to the holotropic breathing people to somato-emotional release to network chiropractic.

don't mistake this for “belief” in any “tradition”.

i am all for engagement with myth and archetype - i just find it less efective and intelligent to literalize that engagement into beliefs that are not consistent with reality.

also my response was to delia's questions and i was not only being frank about my bias but punctuated the whole thing with “i think” and started off by saying it was “a tough one” - so please dont paint it as narow dogmatism.

none of the above feels at all inconsistent to me - though if it still does to you i can respect that…

good to see you.

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

well grey i look forward to hearing about the place second person spirit has in your vision later this week!

personally i don't find it necessary and think it has been the cause of much confusion.
but as i said above i think as an intentional archetypal symbol evoked to open the heart and cultivate certain qualities it has a powerful place.

i guess for me if it gets you into a experiential space that is transformational  and/or serves as a resource to help you deal with stress/trauma - great, but as you know i am interested in the question of what ideas/beliefs/techniques are useful when and for what purpose and when they are actualy serving as a hindrance - could be a stage thing……

look forward to hearing how you include it.

Bjorn : One Mind
1 day later
Bjorn said

“awakening to the mind-blowing miraculous sacredness of reality as it is in a way that redefines the old world ways of using those terms and finally understands that words like god and spirit actually refer to our own complete true nature and have been a way of trying to wake up to ourselves all along”

I like that Julian, but I also agree with wolfspirits comment above. God and all the other names for transcendent reality, love and truth, instead of dismissing them and at once alienating all people professing faith in a higher Essence, I much rather will try to understand it in its context and convey any inherent truth found.

“You have to be someone before you can be no-one.”


I understand what you are saying Julian. My own experience has been very much the opposite: I never knew how to be, before I realized what being no-one meant. Only then did I begin to learn what it means to become a human being.

But whether we do the “work” before or after we wake up, it is essential for integrated growth, and there I'm with you all the way.

Like the man said; seek and you shall find.
Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

whats up !? all the devotional mystics (and espresso drinking face slappers) are awake late at night or something…..

;o)

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
1 day later
Grey said

Not sure if that will make it into my blog Wednesday or not (at least not explicitly), but a litte over a year ago there was a good series of talks on Integral Naked that went into this issue. The 3-part series was called “Touching the Face of Tomorrow” and included Michael Beckwith (I've linked to his profile page because links to all three parts can be found there), Rabbi Marc Gafni (he wrote hoping it wouldn't kick off an entirely irrelevant debate), and Ken.  Part 3, “The Three Faces of God”, in particular goes into first, second, and third-person aspects of Spirit.

Bjorn : One Mind
1 day later
Bjorn said

It's a nice morning coffee here in London

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

oh ok it's the guy in italia & the guy in london & the two night owls over here - unless joe is on the east coast?

hey grey - you ready to see milan beat liverpool on wednesday?

bjorn you cheering for united or chelsea this month?

as to the second person stuff - i aint buying it. sorry, i am a confirmed spiritual atheist. but i'll check out the dialog - oh no did you say beckwith? his church is in my neighborhood - so i been dealing with his particular science of mind stuff for years - oh yea & then came that litle movie called the secret that he is all over , as well as the “thank god i was raped” thing….  dont get me started.

i'm off to sweeter dreams

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
1 day later
Grey said

OK, so both Beckwith and Gafni are human (as is Wilber, of course), but that doesn't change the fact that what they say in that dialogue makes a lot of sense. At least to me.

Oh, and sorry, I've never managed to get into soccer, despite living over here for 15 years. Now MotoGP on the other hand… watching Rossi ride a motorcycle is almost a spiritual experience in itself! ;-)  Seriously though, did anyone else see that mindblowing qualifying lap he did in China last weekend? He had to be seriously in the “flow” when he did that.

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

i'll seek it out on youtube - and dial in the IN chat - but don't expect toomuch from me…

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
1 day later
Grey said

No problem. One thing I've learned from online “debating” is that you can't do it healthily if your goal (or expectation) is to pursuade others. If pursuasion happens as a byproduct, that's fine, but the main objective should, as I see it, be practicing your own cognitive and communication skills and learning something from others and from the whole process. (Not to mention the community-building/social benefits.)

David : ~
1 day later
David said

Thank you very much, Julian. There's some really helpful stuff in there. However, I have to weigh in on the second-face-of-God issue (you can count me as one of the devotional insomniacs–no, I didn't just wake up for an early-morning meditation, unfortunately). Here's Ken from a What Is Enlightenment? interview: 
 

Wilber: There are three topics I've written very little on. One is psychic phenomena; one is rebirth and reincarnation; and one is God in second-person. Because as soon as you open your mouth and say anything about any of those, nobody takes you seriously in the influential academic world… . So the 1-2-3 of God or the three faces of Spirit basically mean that Spirit can be approached in first-person perspective or second-person perspective or third-person perspective. First-person Spirit is the great “I AM,” the pure radical subjectivity or witness in every sentient being. And then Spirit in the second-person is the great “Thou,” something that is immeasurably greater than you could ever possibly be in your wildest imagination, before whom surrender and devotion and submission and radiant release and gratitude is the only appropriate response, and from whom all blessings and all goodness flow unreservedly. And a relationship to that Other, in love and devotion and ecstasy, is the only appropriate response if you have any sanity at all… . This is one of the criticisms that I develop in Integral Spirituality, which is what I call a level-line fallacy-that the second-person view of Spirit got truncated in the West. It got chopped off at the mythic level of development. Spirit in second-person has become stunted and identified merely with God the Father, the old white-haired gentleman, the mythic patriarch of the Bible that nobody believes in anymore… .


Cohen: Without all three faces being included, will have only a partial perspective on who and what God is. One's interpretations of one's own God-experiences will always be incomplete. And it's been apparent to me ever since I began teaching twenty years ago that especially for us postmodern extreme narcissists, the second face of God is absolutely essential. Without God as Thou, the great Other before whom we all must ultimately submit, becoming a living, felt dimension of our own direct experience of Spirit, I wonder whether it's possible to ever move beyond ego in any kind of authentic way.


Wilber: That's so true… .  So you have to say: “Wait a minute. I have to face something that I completely surrender to. I have to face something greater than I could ever imagine myself possibly to be.” You have to utterly surrender with devotion and actually want to do it, because second-person perspective carries a naturally welling up infinite love and gratitude. So it's not something that can be forced. If you're forcing it, then it's not really a true transcendental surrender.



Now this is really going to stretch some people's credulity, but I'm going to quote a little Ramana Maharshi. Now I do not believe this wholesale. I do not believe in some omniscient God that has everyhing locked down and planned out, as Maharshi apparently believed and which his culture certainly supported, but this is none the less illustrative and definitely not entirely without truth:

“The present difficulty is that man thinks he is the doer. But it is a mistake. It is the higher power which does everything and man is only a tool. If he accepts that position he is free from troubles, otherwise he courts them.”

Ramana Maharshi was not an idiot. Ken Wilber called him the greatest sage of the twentieth century. Certainly Ken would disagree with such an extreme metaphysical approach as this, and so do I, but there is a reason the great realizer said things like this. This and similar sayings of his were born not merely out of his cultural conditioning but out of experience. The deeper psychic is where the self really meets the second face of God in Ken's model. And we should also remember: Ken's model, in his words, is a rational reconstruction of the transrational. There's a great mystery out there.

Hokai : In Absentia
1 day later
Hokai said

Hey, J, you're probably sleeping at this moment. Well, it's noon here, and I'm also having some coffee, in my case it's macchiato, and I ain't no face slapper…:-) As to the second face: you can't be that much a spiritual atheist not to recognize that the second face is the way of developing deep devotion, but also a crucial aspect of many tantric meditations (deity and guru yoga). Granted, all three faces are unpacked from Suchness, BUT practice happens in the relative realm, right? So, your 2nd face may not be that pronounced or even explicit, but I don't see how you can dismiss it entirely without serious damage.

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
1 day later
Grey said

Don't know why the 1-2-3 of God didn't occur to me, but of course that's exactly the same thing I was talking about.

As for the Ramana Maharshi quote, I'm not so sure Ken would disagree with it. If we take “man” here to mean man in the manifest realm, and given that he contrasts this with “the higher power”, I think we can assume that's what he meant, then he's right to essentially be saying that Spirit acts through us. But that doesn't exclude the possibility of also becoming aware of Spirit as it arises within us as a first-person experience. The danger arises when one fails to distinguish between egoic duality and spiritual non-duality. And having a second-person devotional practice helps us to stay grounded in that regard.

adam : revolution
1 day later
adam said

hi grey

i didn't want to comment before all the posts were up this week, but your response to wolfspirit's comment - which is a different argument focusing i think on feeling unfairly offended by julian's selective and ostensibly contradictory metaphysical sympathies -  compels me to break radio silence. i just want to know in response to both the gafni-beckwith talk and this:

“A truly integrative (integral) spiritual practice needs to have a second person devotional element, just as much as a first person reflective awareness element, not to mention a third person Gaia-esque element. Get top heavy in any one direction and you risk running into all sorts of problems and limitations.

I'm not suggesting we have to believe in some bearded guy living up in the clouds that will hurl thunderbolts at us if we're bad, but if an image like that works for you, go for it. My point is, we need to practice a well-grounded devotion to Spirit as a second person “out there”, and not focus all of our attention inward to the Spirit inside of us, else we risk getting stuck in the ultimate ego trip.”

why?

for what reason do we need a second person? why do we need to be grateful for being alive? why do we need to have someone else to thank? why do we need a devotional element? why do we need to surrender? why do we need humility? why do we need to devote ourselves to someone else? why does the absence of these things necessarily lead to an “ego trip”, or arrogance, or vanity, or anything else undesirable? in whose debt do we live? to whom or what do we owe allegiance and humility for being alive, and having an ego? are we not allowed to live happily without these things? by whose authority are we so beholden?

now, if a plausible argument can be made for the assertions regarding the existence of _Spirit_  - however defined, then there may be corollary answers to the above questions. your comment is invited…

i'll definitely be covering these issues on thursday, they seem pretty fundamental to me.

(as a footnote, regarding gafni, i don't judge the man on sexual impropriety - nothing remarkable about that in a man of the cloth or spiritual teacher types. what i found remarkable about him  - in most of the video and audio i've seen/heard -  was the amount of meaningless, incoherent, nebulous, faltering waffle he engaged in, encouraged by much sympathetic nodding of heads and sounds of agreement around him. if this man is a teacher, i pity his students. um, er, well, basically, you see, you know, simply, um, hard to say exactly, er, zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. wilber's support of him by association was not encouraging, but not surprising. both the king and his courtiers were most definitely in the alltogether at times…

from what i saw, i found the guy to be personally likeable, and intellectually insufferable. pity i'm not the only one whose knickers he - allegedly - got in a twist.)

sorry grey - you did say you didn't want to kick off an entirely irrelevant debate, but that's the loa for ya ; )

dig the motogp passion - although i'm a ducati man myself : )

ciao 4 now!

Mushin : We-full
1 day later
Mushin said

Hi Julian,

Camelot suggested to point you here for proof of psy - you seem to have moved from the totally sceptic position to being open…

May the Force be with you,
Mushin

Jim : artist, etc.
1 day later
Jim said

In a book he and Mark Addis edited titled Wittgenstein and Philosophy of Religion, Robert Arrington writes:

If believers try to prove the existence of God by appeal to the ontological, cosmological, and teleological arguments, this would seem to imply that they think the belief in God's existence needs proof–and indeed that such proof can be provided.

In response, I think it is fair to say that most of the believers who do appeal to these arguments are of a philosophical bent, and this rules out most believers. Wittgentstein would not be impressed with the reactions of the philosophers and would-be philosophers, since he would see their philosophy as a source of disctraction and confusion. With regard to religious discourse, the philosophers themselves, or at least Anselm and Aquinas, would be held responsible by Wittgenstein for much of the confusion that surrounds the question of the existence of God. These 'metaphysical' theologians would be guilty in his eyes of the same confusion he attributes to metaphysicians in general, namely that of confusing conceptual and factual inquiries. Indeed, these two medieval thinkers might stand as paradigm cases of metaphysicians who confuse grammatical statements with factual ones. 'God exists,' which should be construed as a grammatical remark, might be confusedly taken (and is so taken by these medievals) as asserting a matter of fact–and then one wants some support for it, some proof that it is true. Anselm and Aquinas oblige and offer their proofs. But the very project is wrong-headed if 'God exists and is the creator of the world' is a grammatical rather than a factual claim.

It may not be necessary for the reader to know what Wittgenstein means by “grammar” in order to get the gist of what Arringtion says here, but if anyone is interested, here's a link to a brief account of Wittgenstein's ideas on “Private Language, Grammar and Form of Life.” And here is a link to an account within an article on philosophy of religion of Wittgenstein's approach to “religious grammar”: “Religious Forms of Life and Practices.”

I take Julian to be speaking in response to those who speak of God or Spirit in ways that confuse “conceptual and factual inquiries,” to borrow Arrington's terminology. Julian says “archetypes are real - but only within the psyche,” and here he says quite a bit. To Jung, the psyche is real and it is only through the psyche that we experience anything. For humans, there is no such thing as experience without the psyche. Thus, when I know God or Spirit, I don't know anything about what may or may not exist in a psyche-independent or mind-independent world.

To Jung, the psyche is real, archetypes are real, and God or the Self is the greatest, deepest, and most primordial archetype. There is no obstacle here to an I-Thou relationship to God or Spirit, and this is implicit in Julian’s reference to active imagination, which is an incredibly potent approach to inner work developed by Jung. The word “imagination” in this context is not in the least bit pejorative or reductive. To Jung and Jungians, the imaginal is the life-blood of the soul or psyche. (For a user-friendly introduction to Jungian active imagination, see the book Inner Work by the Jungian-Aurobindian Robert A. Johnson.)

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
1 day later
Grey said

elektroglide: if a plausible argument can be made for the assertions regarding the existence of _Spirit_  - however defined, then there may be corollary answers to the above questions.

Huh? I thought the existence of Spirit was pretty much a given. I didn't realize we needed a plausible argument for its existence. But if we assume, even just for the sake of argument, that Spirit exists, then it not only exists inside of us, but also “out there” in second (or first-person plural if you prefer) and third-person land.

And yeah, looks like Stoner's gonna be a tough nut for Valentino to crack this season!

Peace,
Grey

Bjorn : One Mind
1 day later
Bjorn said

MotoGP and Rossi, yes I am a devotee. It's all for Liverpool now. Let's pray brothers.

How and why should we cultivate Devotion? In my experience it is an outcome of being closer to home. Being more in touch with reality, to strive for understanding, to go out of your way to help someone. Devotion comes naturally when we see beauty (I'm with you Michael). When we finally come to realize that we have learned enough for us to be of service in this life. Then we pass on Lifes lesson; live, love and learn.
In the Baghavatam(major Hindu scripture) Vedanta(the end of the Vedas -the Advaita Absolute teachings) is taken to its furtherest point and results in a life of Bakhti (devotion).
Surrender is the way. And to surrender there need to be another. On the battlefield it doesn't make sense to shout “I surrender!” to no-one. Real surrender always happens to another. Giving up your life/will, surrendering, is the final sacrifice needed. We can't negotiate surrender. It's all or nothing.

Hokai : In Absentia
1 day later
Hokai said

@ Devotion and 2nd person: how about remembering that devotion arises originally as a spontaneous reaction to what is awakened in recognition of the majestic and mysterious depth inherent in every partial manifestation. There's an indisputable Sovereignty being disclosed in the causal Onlyness, which admitedly is only one aspect of it, and is found directly, immediately in the Heart, beyond any dualistic concept. It's quite a different question how such is interpreted in mythic and rational and relativistic terms. But it's primarily a direct apprehension, not a logical disclosure. Hence, Faith and Devotion to the Ineffable for those aspiring to realization.

adam : revolution
1 day later
adam said

grey

“I thought the existence of Spirit was pretty much a given. I didn't realize we needed a plausible argument for its existence.”

in the context of this symposium, i think that's a pretty remarkable pair of statements.

i'm not omniscient. please humour me:

firstly, tell me what you mean by Spirit.

secondly, on what basis do you consider belief in something for the existence of which there is no plausible argument, appropriate?

Hokai : In Absentia
1 day later
Hokai said

elektroglide, you seem to reject the unanimous reports of world's leading mystics and realizers, as well as your own immeditate awareness. “proof of spirit” is none other than the fact you're being aware at this moment.

adam : revolution
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adam said

hokai and grey

you have just provided ample evidence to contradict all those who protested that julian was just forming a gang to promote a narrow excluding rationalist worldview.

hokai, there are so many epistemological and ontological presuppositions and poetic devices in your comment that i find it really hard to understand what you're saying. as wittgenstein would have said - could we have that in plain german please? (not that he's the final word on the word).

i knew i should have kept my mouth shut…

anyway, haven't you got better things to do today ; ) ?

oops - i have. see ya!

adam : revolution
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adam said

hokai, comments crossed. i guess i need walking through this spirit/Spirit thing, because i see and read so many conflicting versions of it. it's definitely one of the words in my growing metaphysical zaadz flexicon, with a multitude of meanings. please help me pin it down guys. seriously.

i have no problem rejecting the unanimous word of mystics and realizers… if i am aware of no good reason to agree with them on any point. i never was a big fan of social proof.

i do need help with understanding what is being referred to…

adam : revolution
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adam said

jim - i would love to discuss your post above in greater depth at a later date. some interesting observations.

if we get the language right, much of the discussion, and the truth claims, disappear in a puff of mixed metaphor.

otherwise, it's just rolling around in alphabettispaghetti

Hokai : In Absentia
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Hokai said

eGlide, i can humbly offer my perspective on this. to begin with, your last comment is one example of spirit.:-) Now, spirit/Spirit (let's equate these two, since we're not discussing ghosts or animal spirits here, but the “one and only”) is That which is immeditate Presence in each and one of us, and that Presence recognized free or empty or pellucid or devoid of any appearance, object, even “subject” which is another object etc. In Buddhist terms, it is the sheere cognizance, that also has qualities of emptiness/spaciousness and bliss i.e. unobstructed feeling. In plain Enlighs, it is your awareness here and now, that is NEVER reducible to eye, ear, nose, tongue, body or thought apprehensions. It ain't memory, nor egoic contraction, nor inclination or personal idiosyncracy of any kind. And it's not a construction “because we need it to explain things”, but rather something quite obvious and yet mysteriously nondual. In the 1st person, it is known as “Witness”. Now this is from Wilber (if I'm allowed):

So Who Are You?

by Ken Wilber

“The witnessing of awareness can persist through waking, dreaming and deep sleep. The Witness is fully available in any state, including your own present state of awareness right now. So I'm going to talk you into this state, or try to, using what are known in Buddhism as “pointing out instructions.” I am not going to try to get you into a different state of consciousness, or an altered state of consciousness, or a non-ordinary state. I am going to simply point out something that is already occurring in your own present, ordinary, natural state. So let's start by just being aware of the world around us. Look out there at the sky, and just relax your mind; let your mind and the sky mingle. Notice the clouds floating by. Notice that this takes no effort on your part. Your present awareness, in which these clouds are floating, is very simple, very easy, effortless, spontaneous. You simply notice that there is an effortless awareness of the clouds. The same is true of those trees, and those birds, and those rocks. You simply and effortlessly witness them. Look now at the sensations in your own body. You can be aware of whatever bodily feelings are present-perhaps pressure where you are sitting, perhaps warmth in your tummy, maybe tightness in your neck. But even if these feelings are tight and tense, you can easily be aware of them. These feelings arise in your present awareness, and that awareness is very simple, easy, effortless, spontaneous. You simply and effortlessly witness them. Look at the thoughts arising in your mind. You might notice various images, symbols, concepts, desires, hopes and fears, all spontaneously arising in your awareness. They arise, stay a bit, and pass. These thoughts and feelings arise in your present awareness, and that awareness is very simple, effortless, spontaneous. You simply and effortlessly witness them. So notice: you can see the clouds float by because you are not those clouds-you are the witness of those clouds. You can feel bodily feelings because you are not those feelings-you are the witness of those feelings. You can see thoughts float by because you are not those thoughts-you are the witness of those thoughts. Spontaneously and naturally, these things all arise, on their own, in your present, effortless awareness. So who are you? You are not objects out there, you are not feelings, you are not thoughts-you are effortlessly aware of all those, so you are not those. Who or what are you? Say it this way to yourself: I have feelings, but I am not those feelings. Who am I? I have thoughts, but I am not those thoughts. Who am I? I have desires, but I am not those desires. Who am I? So you push back into the source of your own awareness. You push back into the Witness, and you rest in the Witness. I am not objects, not feelings, not desires, not thoughts. But then people usually make a big mistake. They think that if they rest in the Witness, they are going to see something or feel something-something really neat and special. But you won't see anything. If you see something, that is just another object-another feeling, another thought, another sensation, another image. But those are all objects; those are what you are not. No, as you rest in the Witness-realizing, I am not objects, I am not feelings, I am not thoughts-all you will notice is a sense of freedom, a sense of liberation, a sense of release-release from the terrible constriction of identifying with these puny little finite objects, your little body and little mind and little ego, all of which are objects that can be seen, and thus are not the true Seer, the real Self, the pure Witness, which is what you really are. So you won't see anything in particular. Whatever is arising is fine. Clouds float by in the sky, feelings float by in the body, thoughts float by in the mind-and you can effortlessly witness all of them. They all spontaneously arise in your own present, easy, effortless awareness. And this witnessing awareness is not itself anything specific you can see. It is just a vast, background sense of freedom-or pure emptiness-and in that pure emptiness, which you are, the entire manifest world arises. You are that freedom, openness, emptiness-and not any itty bitty thing that arises in it. Resting in that empty, free, easy, effortless witnessing, notice that the clouds are arising in the vast space of your awareness. The clouds are arising within you-so much so, you can taste the clouds, you are one with the clouds. It is as if they are on this side of your skin, they are so close. The sky and your awareness have become one, and all things in the sky are floating effortlessly through your own awareness. You can kiss the sun, swallow the mountain, they are that close. Zen says “Swallow the Pacific Ocean in a single gulp,” and that's the easiest thing in the world, when inside and outside are no longer two, when subject and object are nondual, when the looker and looked at are One Taste. You see?”

Hokai : In Absentia
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Hokai said

@ Jim: “Thus, when I know God or Spirit, I don't know anything about what may or may not exist in a psyche-independent or mind-independent world.”

I'd be careful with that formulation. Ultimate reality (which is “God”) exists quite independently of “psyche”! But not independently in an objective fashion, since it underlies and transcend all dichotomies. You may not know it directly on the level of psyche, and hence whatever you know on that level IS by definition psyche-dependent. On the level of psyche we may cognize only symbols of ultimate reality. However, in deep state of meditation (high subtle, low causal and further) the psyche is quite dormant i.e. absent. Ultimate reality or God is self-existent, even by Buddhist notions, but not in a discursive, dualistic sense. Ultimately, Suchness is Mind, but is not “mind-dependent” if by “mind” you mean “psyche”.

Mushin : We-full
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Mushin said

Ultimate Reality is a figment of the imagination - sorry - a product, a fantasy of the imagination. There are many types of ineffable experiences and even non-experiences (as one doesn't posit oneself as experiencer) but there is non of Ultimate Reality (as there wouldn't be any beyond to it…).

Self-evidence does not Umltimate Reality make…

adam : revolution
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adam said

ok - thanks for this. finally… relatively plain egnilhs - from you anyway.  wilber and buddhism i find largely disintegrative, reductionist, and patronising, the former veering towards charlatanism (i suspect he actually believes most of what he says), the latter veering towards schizophrenia, the combination of the two frustrating, as evidenced above.

so, by spirit you mean the part of human consciousness which is pure awareness, the most fundamental aspect of awareness accessible to the human mind.

variously described as:

witness consciousness
awareness of awareness
self-awareness

now, this is purely an objective definition i am surmising. this has no bearing on, or indication of, the intensity of subjective experience possible when the trained locus of attention is coming from this place, which in my blissed-out experience is an all time killer to any notion of the futility of life. it's joyful beyond measure, although, like an orgasm, it can be simply described without recourse to poetry.

but i don't think that's what most people mean by Spirit. i think they're talking about something else altogether. not spirit as in the latin spiritus - breath - the breath of life, but something else entirely, something external to the individual consciousness, some other force or mechanism or entity which in my observation has animistic qualities attached to it. i suspect you and/or grey may be able to confirm that that is the case, and supply further insights into this. or tell me that no - that is all that you mean by spirit/Spirit, and anything else alluding to what i suspect is bogus.

i just read that your definition of god is ultimate reality… so why do we need the word god, since it has so many other really unhelpful connotations, interpretations, definitions, emotions etc?

does anyone else see the importance of conscious and precise language use - including definitions, conventions, grammar, context relatedness - in the  discussion of metaphysical philosophy? thursday will be a gas compared to this…

keep punching. i'm all ears. itty bitty ears ; )

Hokai : In Absentia
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Hokai said

@ Mushin: “Ultimate Reality is a figment of the imagination - sorry - a product, a fantasy of the imagination.” I wonder if your ineffable experiences and even non-experiences (I bet you can tell us a bit more about those), are also a figment / product / fantasy of the imagination. You are denying the very ground on which you stand, sorry, which you ultimately are.

adam : revolution
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adam said

hi mushin, hope the seminar is going well.

Ultimate Reality is a figment of the imagination - sorry - a product, a fantasy of the imagination.

i don't believe that you are saying that there is no reality outside of the imagination, i think you're getting at something else - maybe that the concept of ultimate reality is just that - a concept. (if i'm wrong, you might want to explain your statement further)

 There are many types of ineffable experiences and even non-experiences (as one doesn't posit oneself as experiencer)

who does one posit as the experiencer if not oneself?

but there is non of Ultimate Reality (as there wouldn't be any beyond to it…).

not sure about the reasoning for that statement (just needs clarifying for me). i think i know what you're getting at…

Self-evidence does not Umltimate Reality make…

gotta have some debriefing on that one. das ich ist ziemlich verwirrt… ; )

Jim : artist, etc.
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Jim said

Hi Hokai.

I was using the ambiguous word “psyche” loosely and broadly, in a sense in which “the psyche” and “the human mind” refer to the same thing. Technically you are right, that on “the level of psyche” we may only cognize symbols of ultimate reality, but I was using the term more broadly than that (and Jung sometimes used the term in the broader sense, and sometimes in the narrower, more technical sense). So I was not intending to speak of anything which is absent in deep meditation. If there is a living human being with a functioning brain sitting in deep meditation, then the psyche (in the loose sense in which I used the term “psyche”) is not absent.

Philosophers use the term “mind-independent world” in the context of discussions about philosophical realism and philosophical idealism, the latter being the idea that everything that exists is mind or a modification of mind (or consciousness, etc.).

There are ways of defining “mind” that can make it trivially true that everything is a modification of mind. For example, Wilber has said that he thinks that II-member and philosopher David Chalmers' “relative level” solution to the mind-body problem is one he can agree with. According to Chalmers, any information system, such as a thermostat, can be said to be conscious. Surely this is not what most spititually oriented people mean when they say things to the effect that everything is a manifestation of mind or consciousness.

Wilber says, and I agree, that the “ultimate level” solution to the mind-body problem is satori or the dissolution of the subject-object dichotomy. This is fine, but this is phenomenology and tells us nothing about ontology or what exists, and I maintain (and here I apparently agree with elektroglide) that nothing epistemic can come from satori or mystical experience in general. In other words, we can't make propositional statements or truth claims about the ineffable.

I realize that not everyone agrees with this, but I've yet to hear a good argument in defense of making propositional statements or truth claims about the ineffable.

Wilber says:

When the yogis and sages and contemplatives make statements like, “The entire world is a manifestation of the Self,” that is not a merely rational statement that we are to think about and see if it makes logical sense. It is rather a description, often poetic, of a direct apprehension or a direct experience, and we are to test this direct experience, not by mulling it over philosophically, but by taking up the experimental method of contemplative awareness, developing the requisite cognitive tools, and directly looking for ourselves. (SES, 1st edition, p. 268)

I would modify what Wilber says here to say that statements like “The entire world is a manifestation of the Self” are not rational statements that we are to think about and see if they make logical sense. Nor are they statements to be defended with reasons and evidence as if they are truth claims or propositional statements.

But this does not mean that we must be silent about the ineffable or Spirit by whatever name. We can speak and sing about Spirit in the first, second, and third person, but when we do I would say we are waxing in a mystical-poetic fashion, or to follow the later Wittgenstein, we are engaging in a particular form of life and type of “grammar,” a kind of religious or spiritual grammar.

Jim

Mushin : We-full
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Mushin said

about some of my ineffable experiences I have spoken here, I have created a video about one of the ways that I do create ineffable experiences which you can see here, I have created a little contemplation how to have one kind of ineffable experience here, and talk about another kind of ineffable experience here.   Looking out of my window right now constitutes an ineffable experience and so does eating, sitting, walking and so endless on.

In a way, of course, you are right - whenever we are having an experience we can never truly separate it from our imagination. My objection goes against the word “ultimate”. In a reality ( which certainly is also a mystery)  that is without boundary anywhere whatsoever it seems hubris to speak of ultimates.

Hokai : In Absentia
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Hokai said

Jim, excellent points! Thank you. My statements above are neither philosophical, nor poetical descriptors. I'm strongly practice-informed, and I basically employ the logic of the path (i.e. stage specific). But as to philosophical accuracy, I agree with your remarks.

adam : revolution
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adam said

jim

it is so refreshing to read your comment above. i could discuss some points in further detail for even more distinctions, but for example the point about differentiation between mystical-poetic and truth claims is great. both mystical-poetic and truth claims are fine, just don't mix 'em up and tell the world it is what it ain't (or can't be demonstrated to be).

also, your pointing out the questionable validity of any truth claims made about what is accessed metaphysically in meditative states is great.

it brings such a feeling of relief to see someone else writing this. praise the lord ha ha.

how do you spell relief?

r-e-a-l-i-t-y

oh - and m-a-s-s-a-g-e

adam : revolution
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adam said

mushin - i have a feeling that my apparent lack of understanding of your comments is more to do with sprache than anything else. reading between the lines, i think there is more concensus than is apparent.

on the subject of ineffable - even when an experience makes words redundant, words can still be used as a signpost to those who aren't having that experience in that moment.

Jim : artist, etc.
1 day later
Jim said

Hi elektroglide! Yes, I hope we'll get to talk more on these subjects.

I must say that I think a lot of the differences people have in these discussions comes down to something Alan Watts addressed in his 1966 classic, The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are. (Does everyone know that Wilber has said that he learned to write by literally hand-copying every single one of Watts's books? He said this at the Shambhala Wilber Forum in, I think, 2000, and I think I've seen him say this elsewhere.)

Watts talks about “partisans of 'prickle' and the partisans of 'goo.'”

The prickly people are tough-minded, rigiorous, and precise, and like to stress differences and divisions between things. They prefer particles to waves, and discontinuity to continuity. The gooey people are tender-minded romanticists who love wide generalizations and grand syntheses. They stress the underlying unities, and are inclined to pantheism and mysticism. Waves suit them better than particles as the ultimate constituents of matter, and discontinuities jar their teeth like a compressed-air drill. Prickly philosophers consider the gooey ones rather disgusting–undisciplined, vauge dreamers who slide over hard facts like an intellectual slime which threatens to engulf the whole universe in an “undifferentiated aesthetic continuum” (courtesy of Professor F.S.C. Northrop). But gooey philosophers think of their prickly colleagues as animated skeletons that rattle and click without any flesh or vital juices, as dry and dessicated mechanisms bereft of all finer feelings. Either party would be hopelessly lost without the other, because there would be nothing to argue about, no one would know what his position was, and the whole course of philosophy would come to an end.

;-)

Mushin : We-full
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Mushin said

hi Elektrogleiter ;-)

the seminar went remarkably well, it was truly an enlightening affair ;-)

Ultimate Reality is a figment of the imagination - sorry - a product, a fantasy of the imagination.

i don't believe that you are saying that there is no reality outside of the imagination, i think you're getting at something else - maybe that the concept of ultimate reality is just that - a concept. (if i'm wrong, you might want to explain your statement further)

You are right, I'm not saying that there is no reality outside of the imagination, but neither am I saying that there is a reality out there somewhere.  I simply don't know, how could I?  As I pointed out to Hokai I object against the term “ultimate” in connection with reality (which is a mystery to me).

 
who does one posit as the experiencer if not oneself?

 
I am not one, I am many. When I'm having sex I am a different one then when I'm acting childish, and so endlessly on.  I speak as the first person singular but I guess it would be more proper to speak of myself as “we”.  But speaking of myself as “ourself” doesn't seem proper this day and age…

but there is no Ultimate Reality (as there wouldn't be any beyond to it…).

not sure about the reasoning for that statement (just needs clarifying for me). i think i know what you're getting at…

 the way I understand the term it would mean, well, ultimate - and there is simply nothing beyond that…

Self-evidence does not Umltimate Reality make…

gotta have some debriefing on that one. das ich ist ziemlich verwirrt… ; )

This alludes to Hokai saying, “However, in deep state of meditation (high subtle, low causal and further) the psyche is quite dormant i.e. absent. Ultimate reality or God is self-existent,[bold by me]  even by Buddhist notions, but not in a discursive, dualistic sense.”
Ich hoffe es ist jetzt entwirrt…;-)

Hokai : In Absentia
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Hokai said

You may have it on my word that Ultimate reality is not a figment of imagination, because imagination itself is a figment liberated in the Ultimate reality. But who am I to say, right?

One is free to choose whether Ultimate (not “ultimates”) exists or not, as long as one is playing with propositional thinking. I am only considering that which is realized directly. As to the “ineffable” nature of sense impressions, well of course, but that's not what Ineffable means. By the way, tons of excellent material have been writen on the Ineffable, but only as a way of pointing to the Path.

Mushin : We-full
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Mushin said

Hokai okay. I guess I am a bit gooey the Alan Watts sense of the word (thanks  very much for the quote, Jim).

You seem to still be enthralled by the perennial philosophy happily believing people to aspire to, be informed or blessed by, and basically move around a singular Transcendent Sun - Ultimate Reality - common to all faiths, creeds, mysticisms and spiritual Paths and practices.

This seems to resonate with the situation in astronomy when we believed that our sun was the center of the universe.  We have had to learn, though, that obviously this universe does not have a center at all or, to put it differently and just as true: the universal center is everywhere. And yet, when it comes to (integral) spirituality we are very reluctant to take serious what we have learnt from studying the heavens astronomically. We object to the image that there are numerous Transcendent Suns - Ultimate Realities - around which meaning, understanding, love, devotion and divine, true and valid mystic experience revolves.
And even then, surrendering one's defenses against this understanding, many still would love to salvage some of perennial philosophy's tenets by believing these Suns to turn around a common Center - ULTIMATE REALITY. And indeed, it seems that some Suns do; for instance the Suns of most Christian, Islamic and Jewish faiths turn around the Monotheistic Galactic Center. Yet, other Suns do not turn that way, they participate in and form other constellations in different Galaxies of our local cluster which, of course might be part of other non-centered constellations.

Delia : rara avis
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Delia said

thank you, julian and everyone, for the great responses to the 2 questions. :)

i rather liked that quote from Wilber (thank you, David):

“And then Spirit in the second-person is the great “Thou,” something that is immeasurably greater than you could ever possibly be in your wildest imagination, before whom surrender and devotion and submission and radiant release and gratitude is the only appropriate response, and from whom all blessings and all goodness flow unreservedly. And a relationship to that Other, in love and devotion and ecstasy, is the only appropriate response if you have any sanity at all…”

j, this has been my personal experience of Spirit in second-person. In fact it sounds incredibly pretentious of me to even refer to Spirit in this manner…heh, heh…second-person. ha! ;)

Now, from KW's description, I do not perceive a “parent projection” immediately inherent in a personal relationship with Spirit. A person may temporarily devolve/regress (for varying lengths of time) into a “parent projection” in their relationship with Spirit. And that can be potentially awesome. A great way to heal and work things out from time to time when the person is consciously aware of the relationship they are participating in.

We may also begin to relate with Spirit as a “friend projection,” a “child projection,” and a “lover projection.” And how beautifully convenient that is for us as human souls needing to heal and complete things, especially traumas. We get to work these things out against a palette of infinite possibilities that say “neti, netiti” or conversely “so'ham.” We are afforded a clear mirror into our smaller selves to do a little psyche clean up work in preparation for deeper spiritual experiences.

And as KW says in the above quote, Spirit in the second-person is “something that is immeasurably greater than you could ever possibly be in your wildest imagination.”

i love that. there is no room for projection in that kind of true second-person relationship with Spirit. Spirit is beyond our wildest imaginings, including our personal individual projections.

and there is something very comforting about experiencing our delicate littleness. and also something very awe-inspiring. a true 2nd-person experience of Spirit is simply how we taste the truth. of course, we can receive all of our nutrition thru an IV if necessary. or even a tube inserted directly into our stomach or intestines. yet, there's is nothing quite like tasting wild blackberries and cream on the tongue. yum! :)

yet, i agree it is helpful to keep a balance between the 3 faces of God (thank you, Grey), and not become overly engaged in just one. in fact, i would suggest that THAT is when human projections of the psyche abrupt. when we are out of balance in our relationship with the 3 aspects. and regardless, even if we are out of balance…as long as there remains some conscious awareness that we are out of balance and that we are projecting…we can make it worth our while and do some psychological healing work with what comes forward. hence, personal responsibility kicks in, and we head off to the local spiritual counselor, psychotherapist, somatic healer, integral teacher and etcetera.

as for “magical thinking,” i would like to say just briefly that not only can it be used as a buffer from feeling past pain and trauma—

—“magical thinking” can also be used to “play pretend” within a growing understanding and development of new spiritual paradigms that accompany genuine mystical experiences.

how do children learn to become socialized within this world and explore identity development?

thru playing pretend and engaging in magical thinking.

we too can be like children when it comes to spiritual development in the grander scheme of things, and get ourselves into great gobs of trouble when we think we know it all.

magical thinking can be a great way to “lean into” vast concepts not readily grasped by a newly developing intellect. magical thinking can also make a spiritual path appealing to those who have been burnt by religious fundamentalism.

when children play pretend “house,” are they really starting a family and caring for a home? perhaps, not. what are they doing? warming up to it. playing pretend what it's like to start a family and care for a home. playing pretend what it means to do this and act out all the dynamics involved.

magical thinking is a great warm up into actual spiritual life.

therefore, balance (keyword: balance) between magical thinking/play pretend and actually learning the chores and tasks of spiritual life (metaphorically: washing the dishes, cooking, mowing the lawn, paying bills, sweeping the floors) is a balanced way of nurturing lasting growth and development that gradually blossoms and matures.

from my personal perspective, a healthy dose of play pretend daily keeps the imaginative juices flowing and the openness and receptivity to actual experience alive.

also, here's another way to look at this subject from the healing from trauma perspective:

do you know what foot binding is? that ancient tradition in China of binding a little girl's feet so that they will stay tiny and not grow?

fundamentalism is like this. whether it is in religion, politics or what not.

people who have been raised in these fundamentalist paradigms have stunted growth, and perhaps, are even intellectually/psychically crippled as a result. walking an integral path of Spirit in the 3rd or 1st person only not only looks cold, dry, and excruciatingly painful to these folks. it looks impossible.

there is something inherently kind and forgiving in magical thinking for people whose psyches have been battered by fundamentalism, extreme dualism and concepts of punishing over-righteousness. magical thinking allows them the opportunity to imagine something other than the constraining thought processes they were raised within and engage in spiritually thinking outside the box in order to conceive of new and much more healthy paradigms.

iow, i see magical thinking as not necessarily regressive altogether. rather, it is like a high-chair, a tricycle, or a pair of crutches assisting some people to elevate and ambulate.

is magical thinking then not a form of compassion for these persons?

Julian : integral healer
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Julian said

too much going on to really do justice in any way…

first: i love the depth of this conversation and the excellent posting! thanks so musch to you all - especially mushin for adding your voice back into the mix here!

delia i hear you and i suggest a difference a la donald kalsched between creative imagination that relates the inner and outer worlds and creates a flow of life force and cosciousness  and magical fantasy that fragments the inner and outer worlds and creates poor evaluations of both realities and their relationship, and ultimately blocks energy and awareness because it is inherently a defense against these…

that said i do get what you aree saying about cultural limitations and the necessity of bridging concepts around this 2nd person stuff -

it's hard sometimes because i feel like there are parallel conversations - one has to do with what works in the world for a variety of people - the other has to do with mapping the most effective and blossomed expressions of truth via mature practice and inquiry - ya know?

i am not writing for an audience of old world mythic membership folks who need to hold on to literal beliefs - i knwo they cant hear me - i have no intention of trying to reach them.


my intentions have always been to stimulate the love of reason as an important aspect of contemporary spirituality and suggest that thos eof no longer at the mythic or magic level not regress to their opiated seductions, but get really real with oursleves, tip some sacred cows and keep encouraging existential honesty in those who are ready for it - dig?


“is magical thinking then not a form of compassion for these persons?”

yes! until it isn't….

all: i have no problem with the kind of 2nd person devotional practice/openings i think you are probably describing - i love that shit!

yes i am quite familiar with that wilber/cohen dialog, and still i hold that the problem comes in because that second person god is so easily literalized and believed in.

think about it:

with 1st person god is explored  i can ultimately have a kind of spiritual awakening that can be extraordinary - when it is literalized i am psychotic/paranoid shizophrenic.

when 3rd person god is explored i can have a deep sense of reverence and awe in the face of the natural world, cosmos etc - when literalized i get the whacky new age nonsense about “the universe” somehow orchestrating my acccess to parking spaces, providing checks in themail if i put the right thoughts out there, and there being no “cosmic accidentys” (says pavlina) around who the “supposed victims” of va tech were….right?

when 2nd person god is explored in the way i think we all mean it can result in extraordinary heart openings, feelings of gratitude and surrender, ego-defense softening, reverence - when literalized you get the history of religion on the planet, the crusades, witch hunts, inquisition 911, suicide bombers, etc etc (the list is long that comes specifically from the literalization of the 2nd person face of the divine based in the need to believe something ultimatelty archetypal, mysterious and psychologically representative in nature has some objectively real form and gets rather miffed if we eat meat on fridays, fail to lop off little boys foreskins, don't hide women's bodies  with yards of fabric, have sex before the special ritual, provide aids drugs or sex education to people who need it etc etc….)

elektroglide and joe - i actuallly do not agree that there is anything metapohysically contradictory about my above staements.

i hold the chaklras in the same way i hold any inquiry-based model - they are a way of talking about a profound experiential process that has to do with mind-body psychology and physiology period., there is nothing, nothing metaphysical, faith-based or implying of anything otherworldly in it - though i understand how certian language might create that effect based on association - i think the hardcore yogis were onto something just like any of the hardcore mystics - they just had a uniquely physiological/biological component that i think we are just barely understanding at the high-end of various bodywork and yogic practices - the empirical mapping has yet to be done, but i have some people working to raise funds on doing some studies on my work specifically and what is going on in terms of the UR with some rather undeniable and dramatic processes……..

words like chakra and energy are imprecise but i think are referrents that denote something palpable i deal with every single day. in my experience there is nothing abstract, woo-woo, or etheric about this stuff - and as i have said it is best understood in terms of anatomy, physiology and psychology - and does have the propensity to open one up to profound revelatory altered states.

grey - any integrative spirituality is incomplete without acknowledging and addressing this most dangerous of misunderstood yearnings for the divine…

adam : revolution
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adam said

i can't see it delia, i don't buy it.

god knows that people born into psychologically, emotionally, and intellectually repressive fundamentalist cultures must in some ways seek solace by engaging in magical thinking. does that make it a good thing? i do not think so. magical thinking is actually part of the conditioned repression of free thought, especially in mythic religions. giving them more seems to me to be putting out the fire with gasoline.

that children engage in magical thinking is a consequence of being born with a brain that is so complex that it is not only not fully formed at birth, but requires many forms of external and internal input in order to develop properly at all.

that religions and many spiritual practises promote it as the truth to children and adults is one of the main reasons why we're so fucked now.

your compassion comes through, but i perceive romanticism as well.

magical thinking is mad thinking. it is the literal interpretation of faulty apprehension of causal relationships which are more properly apprehended by reason as the child matures. it is delusional thinking, which if sustained into adulthood is deeply damaging to the self, and the self-esteem of the magical thinker, who presumably must keep on creating ever more fantastic explanations and rationalisations for the inevitable anomalies that reality inconveniently keeps presenting.

while it is appropriate to guide children through the developmental process with tools which are applicable to them at their stage of development - song, myth, poetry, fairy stories, fables etc, it does human beings the greatest disservice if they are not appropriately disillusioned as they develop their own mental faculties.

i do not condone the use of lying by way of bringing comfort. reality hurts sometimes, more so if resisted, and even more if avoided.

play, spontaneity, role playing and creative imagination are something entirely different, as is the conscious processing of archetypes and myth later in life.

i think children become socialised by a process of replacing mythical thinking with rational thinking. that they often grow up in an irrational and fucked up environment or culture (and that's pretty much all of the cultures available right now) is not a justification for claiming virtue in sustaining self-delusion.

while we may look fondly back on the stories of giants and witches and flying horses and people ascending to heaven, and remember the warmth and love with which those stories were hopefully told to us, letting go of magical thinking allows one to more fully apprehend the really mindblowing causal relationships that do exist, and to maintain a proper relationship with reality.

it's part of growing up. and we need to grow up.

there is a middle ground between magical thinking, and thinking we know it all. that's where we're at.

as for three faces of god as anything other than conceptual metaphor - now that's magical thinking…

adam : revolution
1 day later
adam said

julian

“elektroglide and joe - i actuallly do not agree that there is anything metapohysically contradictory about my above staements.”

nor do i (did we say there is?) - but that's because you're fairly explicit that you are talking about conceptual devices for deepening positive affective states, and connecting with, and appreciating more deeply, what is.

however, i think the same effects can be had more healthily without recourse to language almost exclusively associated by the vast majority of humanity with literal entities (magical thinking again), and in any case more than slightly prone to contradictory interpretation, little of which could be described as coming from a grounded perspective.

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
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Grey said

“Conceptual metaphor” sounds awfully dismissive to me, although I suppose you could mean it in a more profound, spiritual way.  I'd be careful, though, not to confuse “magical” with “mystical”. It appears to me that you may be doing this at times, but maybe it's just a problem of language limitations?

adam : revolution
1 day later
adam said

mmm - i think metaphors can be pretty powerful things - we can't really think without them. i didn't mean to undervalue them in this context

if you believe that second person god is anything other than a metaphor, you probably would consider it dismissive. i'm not saying that's the case with you, but may be

“I'd be careful, though, not to confuse “magical” with “mystical”. It appears to me that you may be doing this at times”

i may indeed have done just that - quote me an example, i'll clarify what i meant.

thanks for the heads up. the limitation won't be with the language, it'll be with how i'm using it.

Julian : integral healer
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Julian said

elektroglide - i have yet to find an instence in which i actually disagree with you.

you are correct in your observation - it's something i have had to wrestle with for the last 13 years - how to utilize and further evolve a set of tools and vocabulary hat most interpret literally or magically that i understand as a doorway into something else - or rather a doorway deeper into where we are…..

it' the problem of trying to update the language and understanding of a set of practices that have something potent and sophisticated experientially at their core - while continuing the important process of goiong post-metaphysical, dropping the cultural baggage and dispensing with the superstition….

i am clear on it in myslef - but goddamn is it hard to communicate!

MrTeacup : Celestial Accounts Receivable Dept.
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MrTeacup said

Delia, you've said many interesting things. I agree with you that I-Thou experience is legitimate – its hard not to spend time with Rumi and not get that. There is a problem, as Julian says, with literalizing it, and its close association with mythic-magic religion doesn't help.

I'm also not sure that balancing the divine in all 3 faces is necessary though. If we view I-Thou as a feminine mode, and I-Me / I-Its as a masculine mode, David Deida seems to argue that spiritual development does not necessarily entail a balancing of masculine and feminine. He seems OK with extremely agentic and extremely communal modes balanced outside the psyche with an opposite partner creating the balance. But isn't that a projection? Is male-female psychic imbalance OK, just not integral? Or is it always fine? The jungian perspective would be helpful for me to understand this.

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
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Grey said

That's what I meant by language limitations, not that you don't have a grasp of the language, just that language is inherently inadequate when it comes to spirituality.

That said though, I think we may have to just agree to disagree on the metaphor thing. But perhaps the phrase “second person” is also misleading. I don't mean that I think there's a distinct “entity” out there that we have to worship, but I do think that Spirit is much more than a metaphor. I mean, you can't truly love or dedicate your life to a metaphor, and I don't think it's healthy to direct all that love and dedication inward. And if you don't feel there's non-dual Spirit in more than a metaphorical sense, I don't see where else you can direct it.

MrTeacup : Celestial Accounts Receivable Dept.
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MrTeacup said

Elektroglide,

magical thinking… is the literal interpretation of faulty apprehension of causal relationships… play, spontaneity, role playing and creative imagination are something entirely different, as is the conscious processing of archetypes and myth later in life.


Is it? For me, there is regressive magical thinking, and healthy magical thinking, and I don't agree that magical thinking always entails literalization. My 2 year old is in that phase, and she does not literalize her imaginative play because literalization is a feature of the Piaget-ian concrete operational stage. Also, magical thinking does not ordinarily need to be “socialized” out of us – given room to grow and the absence of trauma, concrete operational thinking replaces preoperational thinking as a matter of course.

Regressive magical thinking is unhealthy and often requires intervention, and I think one of its important characteristics is a rigid, fixated obsession with specific imaginary creations, unlike healthy magical thinking, which shifts fluidly and doesn't get tied down for long in one place.

David : ~
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David said

“When 2nd person god is explored in the way i think we all mean it can result in extraordinary heart openings, feelings of gratitude and surrender, ego-defense softening, reverence.”

This is all good stuff, but I think there's more to come if the person continues to explore.
 

“When literalized you get the history of religion on the planet, the crusades, witch hunts, inquisition 911, suicide bombers, etc etc.”

I think this is just what KW was arguing against when he said, 

“This is one of the criticisms that I develop in Integral Spirituality, which is what I call a level-line fallacy-that the second-person view of Spirit got truncated in the West. It got chopped off at the mythic level of development. Spirit in second-person has become stunted and identified merely with God the Father, the old white-haired gentleman, the mythic patriarch of the Bible that nobody believes in anymore.”

In other words, those items in the list are all amber interpretations of the second face of God. But what Ken and Andrew are talking about is an indigo-violet interpretation of the second face of God. It's also what Michael Murphy and Andrew Cohen are talking about in this 9-minute video (it's the fourth to last video on this page).

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

david i am right there with you bro - we are saying the same thing from different angles - thanks for the links!

Delia : rara avis
1 day later
Delia said

thank you, julian, for the distinction a la donald kalsched. i agree so much with that perspective: does the creative imagination serve to integrate the inner and outer experience or fragment them? in my comment, i was absolutely referring to the former. i am eager to promote that line of cognition, as well.

ekg:

“that children engage in magical thinking is a consequence of being born with a brain that is so complex that it is not only not fully formed at birth, but requires many forms of external and internal input in order to develop properly at all.”

it is my experience that we are not stagnant in physical adulthood (post 18-25 years of age). we continue to evolve and to require many forms of external and internal input in order to continue developing properly. then of course, there are transformational and mystical experiences that promote even further evolution, and these necessitate continuing digestion and assimilation of spiritual content.

for example: here we are—all participating in a symposium on integrative spirituality. clearly we are pursuing further input to support our development. we are still growing. we are still developing. therefore, creative imagination has not become obsolete in the lives of adult human beings. however, evolution necessitates that it must develop beyond usage for the purposes of fragmentation and warring. we can use a knife to kill someone or cut them a slice of bread.

that said, i was not in anyway condoning the use of myth or magical thinking to promote dissociation or fragmentation from reality in any way. rather, i am promoting the opposite: how can we engage our imaginations to engage more fully in reality in a deeper, more profound, and integrative fashion.

no matter how dirty the bathwater. we must not throw out the baby. we must seek out the baby from the muck and care for him/her.

what i speak of as it concerns fundamentalism is the dirty bathwater. what i am promoting is the fact that there is still a baby (creative imagination) in there worth caring for and nurturing.

i am not suggesting that we coddle religious fanaticism and fundamentalism and their estranging belief system into further cultural and psychological fragmentation. no. not at all.

i hear your passion for truth, ekg. that is apparent. yet i also hear a form of (perhaps) well-guised romanticism…(tee, hee, hee) ;)

it is completely unrealistic to expect someone who can barely jog around the block conceptually, to be able to run a marathon on day two of their spiritual initiation. their canon of experience and developmental knowledge is not equipped for that task in many cases. therefore, one can engage recovering literalists and  fundamentalists with the developmental tool of creative imagination to expand and comprehend more tolerant and inclusive spiritual paradigms they had never before even considered.

and if you'll indulge me for a moment: there is a difference between gently exposing a child to the fact that mommy and daddy buy his/her x-mas gifts (not santa), and screaming it out loud to them as they present you with their heartfelt, carefully written letter to the old guy at the north pole. :)

kindness.

baba muktananda once defined a great litmus for telling the truth:
1. is it true?
2. is it kind?

is bitter truth ever really true? or is it just bitter?

honestly, i feel that that is the draw of the new age and all its sundry fluffiness in the first place. large masses of people are so desperately longing for kindness in their lives. so much so that they are willing to overlook disparate untruths for just a drop of loving kindness.

therefore, i feel that it is imperative that any exploration of integrative spirituality include these truths: kindness and compassion. otherwise, the pews will certainly go barren of eager, attentive asses. (i'm referring, of course, to buttocks not mules) ;)

personally, spirituality sans joy holds no interest for me whatsoever.

:)


“as for three faces of god as anything other than conceptual metaphor - now that's magical thinking…”

i agree that it is a conceptual metaphor. metaphors are largely all we have to describe certain metaphysical experiences. there exists no material, empirical or scientific referent. thus metaphors, poetry, and love songs become our protractors and sliding rules.

overall, ekg, i feel that we may agree on more than may at first seem apparent, my rationalist good sir

:)

if i could pose a question at this moment to you (and perhaps, everyone), it would be this:
what do you love about spirituality? there is something in it that makes your juices flow and your neurons fire…what is that?


now, as i am on vacation (at last!), i must be off to watch The Fast and The Furious trilogy with my father who's been warming up the subwoofers and the enormous flat screen tv, and is raring to go!

:)

adam : revolution
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adam said

salve grey!

That's what I meant by language limitations, not that you don't have a grasp of the language, just that language is inherently inadequate when it comes to spirituality.

i think that people's lack of critical thinking and writing about spirituality is more of a limitation than language

perhaps the phrase “second person” is also misleading. I don't mean that I think there's a distinct “entity” out there that we have to worship

right

but I do think that Spirit is much more than a metaphor

my definition of spirit (the breath of life, that which pertains to life but is not comprised of matter) makes it much more than a metaphor. i really need to hear your definition of spirit. hokai chimed in splendidly earlier. i think it's a crap word to use, another flexicon word with too many vague meanings, you gotta share yours.

I mean, you can't truly love or dedicate your life to a metaphor, and I don't think it's healthy to direct all that love and dedication inward.

that sounds like a functional utility application of spirituality. as if you're looking for a purpose or vision - something to focus towards other than yourself. although i think more people should direct love and dedication inwards without fearing narcissism - it's actually more like hard work. integrated joyful human beings are generally very benevolent human beings. the complete opposite of christian altruism which promotes self-sacrifice. fuck that!

And if you don't feel there's non-dual Spirit in more than a metaphorical sense, I don't see where else you can direct it.

life, your self, love of life, love of self, the planet, your loved ones etc… or am i missing the point?

buona notte

ldgussin : Writer, mostly
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ldgussin said

“My sense of it is a spirituality that… integrates Eastern and Western approaches…”

I am a weak reader of philosophy and systems thinking; this is a personal limitation. Yet I've been in the counterculture and a seeker for a long time, and finding Zaadz and hoping to be involved I'm trying to hold on amid the terminology. I'm also wary: a book titled A Brief History Of Everything suggests to me reduction and postmodern sarcasm, neither which I care for. And now, as I'm writing this, I'll have to read the book.

The clause in your post I quote seems to jibe with lots of talk about east-west synthesis, yet I think that the half-century history of this proposed synthesis is dangerously slanted. The west that is spoken of is not western culture as an entity, complex, whole, and full of tensions, but two abstractions from it. The first is science, viewed as a cultural apex. The second is psychology as a form of literature, specifically the theories derived from Freud and Jung. Yet science always has had a troubling relationship with its host culture, and it is this science that now largely dismisses literary psychology in the face of larger truths it thinks it finds in brain science.

What has dropped off the map in the discussion of what the west brings to any synthesis of the spiritual is (I'll just pick five) Oedipus blinding himself; II Isaiah; the Sermon on the Mount; Augustine, with the best intentions, turning out the lights; and the final scenes in King Lear. Instead we get Freud's (Jung's, Perls', Maslow's, etc., etc.) long look back at these real or imagined occurences, and the systems add-ons that follow, and the hard sciences that would like to reduce what it sees as a lot of cultural mysticism to enzyme malfunctions. But it isn't mysticism; it is life, partly spiritual, partly not, lived in the world.

This reduction seems to have begun in the early Esalen days and been generalized as human potential declined into new age. The western heritage not exclusively rational or exclusively mystical is forgotten or clouded. Doubters of this claim might search Zaadz for the cultural occurences listed above–or for Shakespeare, Dante, Jefferson, Henry Adams or other major western figures who grappled with the spiritual and secular in their time.

Is there east-west integration if the west isn't truly heard?

PS: I appreciate western self-disguest as a cause of this cultural forgetting. Henry Miller leaves Paris in 1940 by showing his American passport, and eventually finds his way to Esalen. Walter Benjamin, a German Jewish writer, also leaves Paris in 1940. He has a U.S. visa, but Nazis won't let him cross the border. They kill him there or he kills himself.

Jim : artist, etc.
1 day later
Jim said

Hi Delia.

You wrote (to Julian, I believe):

if i could pose a question at this moment to you (and perhaps, everyone), it would be this:
what do you love about spirituality? there is something in it that makes your juices flow and your neurons fire…what is that?

I would define spirituality as having to do with our ultimate concerns (and here I am following Paul Tillich, as Wilber does when he defines spirituality). I and everyone I know will die, and everything I can possibly possess will decay or be destroyed by catastrophic events (such as 9/11, Katrina, the Virginia Tech massacre, tornadoes, war, disease, etc.). This would be reason for despair (for me, at least) were it not for the fact that I have been blessed to know a happiness which does not depend on “external” conditions (meaning external to my brain) and which in that sense is unconditional.

I cannot predict how I would behave were I in the World Trade Center on 9/11 or in a Nazi concentration camp, but I am moved and inspired by these stories:

After 9/11, someone wrote a letter to the NY Times about her brother, who died in the WTC on 9/11. He’d called someone in his family to tell them that he was on a lower floor with a co-worker and friend who was paraplegic, and who therefore could not be gotten down the stairs. (The elevators were not working at this point.) He said he was not going to abandon his friend, and hoped they would be rescued. They weren’t.

A concentration camp commandant decided to execute a number of prisoners in order to punish all the prisoners for some infraction. One of them began to cry that he had a wife and child. A Catholic priest who was not among those to be executed volunteered to take this man’s place, saying that unlike the prisoner who was to be executed, he was old and had no family. The commandant let the priest take the man’s place.

It’s stuff like this that makes me love spirituality, gets my neurons firing, and makes the hair on my arms stand up.

Jim

adam : revolution
1 day later
adam said

hi teacup

(btw this is the second time you've accosted one of my posts with your own (somewhat oblique) definition of a word as a counter to my defined use of the same word. i'm not sure yet what's going on there, but in general, since i tend to define my terms, it doesn't really make sense to interject with your own definition and use that definition in itself as an attempted counter to whatever point i'm making. you're free naturally to use whatever definition you want as long as it's clearly stated, but that definition does not constitute an argument in itself. you may just be doing it to clarify the point for yourself, but you should be aware of the emerging pattern, and i'd like to know if you've spotted it and if so what it is about. the last time, we both got ratty with each other, as i didn't catch on quickly enough. i hope we don't go down the same hole again - i haven't had time to go over the last incidence together with you to sort it out)

“magical thinking… is the literal interpretation of faulty apprehension of causal relationships… play, spontaneity, role playing and creative imagination are something entirely different, as is the conscious processing of archetypes and myth later in life.”

Is it? For me, there is regressive magical thinking, and healthy magical thinking

ok, that's fine, and although the distinction seems somewhat redundant given my comments to delia which already distinguish between magical thinking in the course of the normal developmental process, and magical thinking which is indulged in as an adult - or more likely which remained undifferentiated, and was never contextualised by the adoption of critical thinking. also, do you dis/agree with my statement about it before making further distinctions? this seems more important.

and I don't agree that magical thinking always entails literalization. My 2 year old is in that phase, and she does not literalize her imaginative play because literalization is a feature of the Piaget-ian concrete operational stage.

forget the models - i'm talking about the real world. literal is a word with meanings outside piaget. most of which fit congruently into the context of my statement, which refers to faulty apprehension of causal relationships. believe me, she literalizes her apprehension - she believes what her brain tells her (mostly). she doesn't know it that's all. nor do most magical thinkers. your disagreement again seems  unrelated to my point, rather to my incongruence with an abstract that you happen to be partial to. i feel as if you're not concentrating on what i'm actually saying, rather comparing it to how you would have said it.

Also, magical thinking does not ordinarily need to be “socialized” out of us – given room to grow and the absence of trauma, concrete operational thinking replaces preoperational thinking as a matter of course.

given the pervasive level of ritualised and everyday adult magical thinking in tribal groups and cultures historically (as well as modern day), i'd say that specifically rational socialization is indeed a necessary but insufficient requirement, or at least an absence of magical indoctrination. con-op does develop spontaneously under reasonable conditions as autonomous survival demands, but does not replace magical thinking unless the culture encourages that displacement either actively or passively. ask an aborigine.

Regressive magical thinking is unhealthy and often requires intervention,

although intervention rarely happens, either in fundamental religious or mythical cultures, or in relativist cultures which do not teach critical thinking. again, ask an aborigine. or your average new-ager.

and I think one of its important characteristics is a rigid, fixated obsession with specific imaginary creations

i don't know about that. i thought it was to do with falsely ascribing causal relationships to unrelated objects or phenomena. that characteristic is not something i recognise as particular to magical thinking.

later

adam : revolution
1 day later
adam said

delia

i love nothing about spirituality. i'm very prickly, i exist to be picky. i live in a small box with no furniture in it, with “beware of the dogma” written neatly on the lid.

and no subwoofers…

MrTeacup : Celestial Accounts Receivable Dept.
1 day later
MrTeacup said

ldgussin,

Another cause of the cultural forgetting might also be lack of relevance. Much of Western grappling with spirituality is caught in its own cultural narratives about what is spiritual and what is secular, and looking at it from the outside, it looks much like they are wrestling with and conquering their own imaginary demons. This is even and especially true of supposedly counter-cultural movements, which are as deeply embedded in their own myths – of reaction and antagonism – as mainstream culture is. Even writers who were influenced by Eastern mysticism, like the Beat generation, integrated its truths naively and opportunistically, finding what they wanted to find in it.

Not all is irrelevant though, some things can be salvaged, but I have personally noticed that along the spiritual path, much fiction ceases to feel authentic and compelling. The characters don't seem to be cutting to the heart of the human condition anymore, just aimlessly pushing around cultural constructions in hopes of a more harmonious arrangement in a way that perpetuates delusion instead of freeing us from it. I don't think it needs to be this way, and I think our culture is weakened because of it, but unfortunately, that's the way it is at the moment. I look forward to it changing though.

Jim : artist, etc.
1 day later
Jim said

Mr. Teacup says:

and I think one of its [magical thinking] important characteristics is a rigid, fixated obsession with specific imaginary creations

elektroglide says in response:

i don't know about that. i thought it was to do with falsely ascribing causal relationships to unrelated objects or phenomena. that characteristic is not something i recognise as particular to magical thinking.

Magical thinking is defined at Wikipedia as “non-scientific causal reasoning.”

Here's a link to a scholarly article titled ”Magical Thinking in Complementary and Alternative Medicine” by SUNY anthropologist Philip Stevens, Jr.

And here's a permalink to a NY Times article on magical thinking titled ”Do You Believe in Magic?

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

wow.

i am so honored by the intensely beautiful and brilliant discussion going on here.

ldgussin - you give me much to think on and bring a solid and penetrating point to tthe table that i am sure you could elaborate on for days - maybe you will…… if we are lucky!

everyone else i don't even know where to begin - delia your amazing heeart sparkle and intelligence comes though in everything you write, jim you just borke my heart and reminded me why i valued you so much back in the lightmind days, ekg your dry humor, clarity of expression and comittment to integrity that combines both uncompromising reason and lack of contmept(something i am trying to learn…)

everyone else - gratitude. there is not a comment here that is not brimming with engaging goodwill, radiant intelligence, and deep groundedness…

adam : revolution
1 day later
adam said

“that children engage in magical thinking is a consequence of being born with a brain that is so complex that it is not only not fully formed at birth, but requires many forms of external and internal input in order to develop properly at all.”

it is my experience that we are not stagnant in physical adulthood (post 18-25 years of age).

i didn't say we are. come on delia, just because you're on holiday doesn't mean you can go all limp on me. this is my last blog of my most blogged day ever. for which i apologise in advance. i know you can take it.

 we continue to evolve and to require many forms of external and internal input in order to continue developing properly. then of course, there are transformational and mystical experiences that promote even further evolution, and these necessitate continuing digestion and assimilation of spiritual content.

for example: here we are—all participating in a symposium on integrative spirituality. clearly we are pursuing further input to support our development. we are still growing. we are still developing. therefore, creative imagination has not become obsolete in the lives of adult human beings.


now you're changing the subject to creative imagination. bah.

however, evolution necessitates that it must develop beyond usage for the purposes of fragmentation and warring. we can use a knife to kill someone or cut them a slice of bread.

or cut them a slice of bread then kill them. your point is what exactly? have some more chocolate then come back to it…

that said, i was not in anyway condoning the use of myth or magical thinking to promote dissociation or fragmentation from reality in any way. rather, i am promoting the opposite: how can we engage our imaginations to engage more fully in reality in a deeper, more profound, and integrative fashion.

easy. stop believing in bullshit because we're scared of reality. stop teaching bullshit to children, teachers, students, learners.

no matter how dirty the bathwater. we must not throw out the baby. we must seek out the baby from the muck and care for him/her.

as a multi-perspective politician, i should point out that given the current world situation, we need bathwater much more than we need babies, and the water is only dirty because we put the baby in it. therefore, i propose throwing the baby out before it gets anywhere near the bathwater.

what i speak of as it concerns fundamentalism is the dirty bathwater. what i am promoting is the fact that there is still a baby (creative imagination) in there worth caring for and nurturing.

you are so sweet. you deserve another piña colada. then i might have a clue what you're talking about.

i am not suggesting that we coddle religious fanaticism and fundamentalism and their estranging belief system into further cultural and psychological fragmentation. no. not at all. i hear your passion for truth, ekg. that is apparent. yet i also hear a form of (perhaps) well-guised romanticism…(tee, hee, hee) ;)

where? i'm a grumpy old git. no romanticism in me ma'am.

it is completely unrealistic to expect someone who can barely jog around the block conceptually, to be able to run a marathon on day two of their spiritual initiation. their canon of experience and developmental knowledge is not equipped for that task in many cases. therefore, one can engage recovering literalists and  fundamentalists with the developmental tool of creative imagination to expand and comprehend more tolerant and inclusive spiritual paradigms they had never before even considered.

what's that all got to do with magical thinking? who said anything about expecting joggers to run a marathon? are you talking about converting fundamentalists? forget it - they're not interested. the fear and psychological consequences of questioning are too deep and too invisible for most to engage in such a process while embedded in the original culture. and there's no need for literalists to change - they just need to literally believe in the truth.

and if you'll indulge me for a moment: there is a difference between gently exposing a child to the fact that mommy and daddy buy his/her x-mas gifts (not santa), and screaming it out loud to them as they present you with their heartfelt, carefully written letter to the old guy at the north pole. :)

so the money i spent on that santa outfit wasn't completely wasted then…

whaddya think i am - the grinch???

kindness.

bah humbug!!!

baba muktananda once defined a great litmus for telling the truth:
1. is it true?


i'm with him so far! is that one of those important ancient truths?

2. is it kind?

now he's lost me.

is bitter truth ever really true? or is it just bitter?

or is it just truth?

honestly, i feel that that is the draw of the new age and all its sundry fluffiness in the first place. large masses of people are so desperately longing for kindness in their lives. so much so that they are willing to overlook disparate untruths for just a drop of loving kindness.

nothing new about that. self-delusion has always been a favourite escape route from reality, assisted by cocaine, peyote, heroin, and copious quantities of budweiser. my point which i'll hammer on thursday (oops tomorrow) is that the kindest thing they could do for themselves is to face reality and find the real loving warmth and comfort in the real world.

therefore, i feel that it is imperative that any exploration of integrative spirituality include these truths: kindness and compassion. otherwise, the pews will certainly go barren of eager, attentive asses. (i'm referring, of course, to buttocks not mules) ;)


are you suggesting that i sex up reality? what like - “come on in - the water's fucking freezing, but you'll get used to it”

and mules have buttocks too you know. what happened to pluralist zoology? call yourself integral? pah!

personally, spirituality sans joy holds no interest for me whatsoever.

i think it's sad if folks can only find joy in spirituality by deluding themselves. although, as ayatollah khomeini said - “there is no fun in islam” so maybe any joy is shooting a bit far.

“as for three faces of god as anything other than conceptual metaphor - now that's magical thinking…”

i agree that it is a conceptual metaphor. metaphors are largely all we have to describe certain metaphysical experiences. there exists no material, empirical or scientific referent.

not strictly true, correlates found in all quadrants for contemplative state changes, plus lots of data esp. ul and ur.

 thus metaphors, poetry, and love songs become our protractors and sliding rules.

i think people have been conned into believing that they can't describe things. i just think they're not in the habit of describing anything very well.

overall, ekg, i feel that we may agree on more than may at first seem apparent, my rationalist good sir

don't bet on it you deranged scumqueen ; )

enjoy your hols! : )))))

MrTeacup : Celestial Accounts Receivable Dept.
1 day later
MrTeacup said

elektroglide,

I'm trying to say, somewhat obliquely, that delia's understanding of magical thinking differs very little from yours, as you know. Delia's take on it, however, highlights the fact that higher levels of development do not render the previous levels obsolete, they build on each other. But this is not a mere semantic debate. In viewing Jim's wiki links, the developmental aspect of the analysis is incomplete, it appears to be preop -> formop, which ignores the important fact that fundamentalist religion is in fact conop, and that formop necessarily builds on conop and preop. The NYTimes article is a little better, but provides incomplete information about the preop stage.

If we're looking for solutions, the developmental perspective is essential.

As for the pattern, I have noticed it. No hard feelings though, I hope? Its just me perceiving, rightly or wrongly, that other people agree with you but use different terms. In the past, you've insisted that other people use your terminology, even though they have other priorities and good reasons to use different terminology. Perhaps I'm being reactive though.

adam : revolution
1 day later
adam said

julian - apologies for bringing down the tone of this blog! i was getting too tired to give delia's post the seriousness that it deserves. i needed a laugh, hope she has one too. in any case, it'll prove to the gender-conscious symposium detractors that - as they suspected - i (at least) don't take women seriously, so everyone gets to feel good ; )

teacup - no hard feelings whatsoever. i do recall asking people to define their terms, and recognise commonly accepted definitions, don't recall insisting on terminology use. i'm not in a position to. if i bang on long enough about protocol, people may realise with all the confused blogging going on, that it might be a good idea to follow basic discourse procedure. i'll look harder for agreement underlying word usage. i'm glad we could have this exchange.

Delia : rara avis
1 day later
Delia said

mr. teacup: yes, i tend to veer into a developmental perspective. it is my achille's heel. i have a soft spot for salamanders…not quite out of the ocean…not quite established on dry land. i also get a little weak in the knees for the platypus. such a beautiful mish-mosh of evolutionary fancy that one is.

jim: thank you for sharing with such heart about your personal and spiritual experience of  the people who died in the WTC and Auschwitz. what you wrote was very moving. it is clear that you resonate very deeply with compassion and surrender. and that humanity and caring mean a great deal to you. again, thank you. :)

julian, i just caught this phrase in re-reading your original post…was wondering if you would mind elaborating a little more on it—here or in another future post…very interesting proposition you are making…:

“From these stages we are able to reclaim what the rational stage cast off from the literal mythic and magic stages of development and reinterpret it through the symbolic lense of our deeper more sophisticated capacities.”

j, my understanding of past, current, and future myths is that they are symbolic. and despite the fact that you say you and ekg agree on pretty much everything…here on this point, i find you two gentlemen varying quite profoundly…perhaps.

given your recent comments (weary or not!…no sympathy for you! ha!), ekg, it is my current understanding, given your reply to me, you feel that literalists need not change their literalism, but rather change what they are literal about. i'm guessing that symbolism does not get a seat at your dinner table, ekg? is that correct?…

:)

let's chat for a moment…shall we ekg? come…draw closer, my good man…

thus we spake:

that said, i was not in anyway condoning the use of myth or magical thinking to promote dissociation or fragmentation from reality in any way. rather, i am promoting the opposite: how can we engage our imaginations to engage more fully in reality in a deeper, more profound, and integrative fashion.

easy. stop believing in bullshit because we're scared of reality. stop teaching bullshit to children, teachers, students, learners.


and thus we spake some more:

it is completely unrealistic to expect someone who can barely jog around the block conceptually, to be able to run a marathon on day two of their spiritual initiation. their canon of experience and developmental knowledge is not equipped for that task in many cases. therefore, one can engage recovering literalists and  fundamentalists with the developmental tool of creative imagination to expand and comprehend more tolerant and inclusive spiritual paradigms they had never before even considered.

what's that all got to do with magical thinking? who said anything about expecting joggers to run a marathon? are you talking about converting fundamentalists? forget it - they're not interested. the fear and psychological consequences of questioning are too deep and too invisible for most to engage in such a process while embedded in the original culture. and there's no need for literalists to change - they just need to literally believe in the truth.


ekg, let me put two of your sentences together…hmm…like this:

stop teaching bullshit to children, teachers, students, learners. and there's no need for literalists to change - they just need to literally believe in the truth.


no…wait…perhaps like this:

and there's no need for literalists to change - they just need to literally believe in the truth. stop teaching bullshit to children, teachers, students, learners.


ah…very good.

now—please tell me the truth.
then tell me what is reality.
then tell me what to teach.
then tell me the purpose of all the above.

clearly, i have no idea what i am talking about in my ramble of sloppy metaphors (pina colada?! pshaw! hefeweizen, please!), and absolutely need to learn by example.

a masterful demonstration of the aforementioned by yourself ought to give me a much clearer understanding of your (delightfully) persnickety grievances with my confusing, yet happy, holiday ponderances (<– not a real word…i don't care) :p

(btw, F & the F rocked! really enjoyed Tokyo Drift…would love to learn how to do that high-speed drift thing…tips from experienced reckless drivers are appreciated…please, message me privately…thx so much) ;)

you know ekg…you remind me of my childhood teddy…or was it this guy…hmm…perhaps it was this dude…no, no wait…it was this guy…yes—totally like him!

;)

i had a fabulous laugh. thanks, you thoughtful cranky old integrate-and-teach-the-truth-of-my-perspective-of-reality-or-suffer-a-horrible-skewering bastage.

:)

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
1 day later
Grey said

elektroglide: life, your self, love of life, love of self, the planet, your loved ones etc… or am i missing the point?

Well, sure these are all fine, but perhaps you are missing the point. First, I'm not saying that love of self is bad, just that it can be taken to an extreme if we're not careful. Love of the planet I would say is a sort of third-person approach to Spirit (what I meant by Gaia-esque before). Love of others is also fine, but this all gives me the impression that you're trying to be far too rational about Spirit and spirituality, which is a severly limited approach in my opinion.

The same goes for your idea that language is able to adequately describe the non-dual “mystery” that is Spirit.  I mean, sure, to an extent it's important to be clear on the meaning of the terms we use, but there are some terms, like Spirit, that can never be properly “nailed down” by a clear definition.

And don't get me wrong, pretty much all of my spiritual awareness is coming from the cognitive side of things.  I mean, I've done a bit of Big Mind process and I meditate, but I don't think I've ever experienced what I imagine spiritual ecstatic joy would be like. So in that regard, a lot of my awareness comes from reading about the experiences of others and keeping an open mind to accept that just because I can't see it or rationalize it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Where critical thinking comes into play is in being able to distinguish between regressive magical and transpersonal mystical, not in trying to explain away everything we can't see or feel or describe using clear, concise vocabulary.

But time to get to work on finishing my contribution for the week!

Sa'Rah : Ordered Chaos
2 days later
Sa'Rah said

delia…you ask what gets the juices flowing…and i would have to say that is the all the moments that are so very based in experience that talking about them is never going to do them justice…but i will attempt anyhow ;o)…they are the doorways to greater mystery and deeper questions and the passion to continue this unfolding…

which is why i find all this talk of a second person God kind of baffling…i can wrap my mind around a first and third from experience with both the inner self (all the way through to the Self) and the outside forces such as nature and time that will ways be beyond my grasp, but which exert a certain power under which both faith and devotion and surrender come into the picture…but the second person?…just seems so connected in with the magical thinking/existential safety net that indeed keeps the first and third experiences from unfolding to their fullest potential…

that all might have been said in the long discussion already unfolding of which was a bit long for my late night attention span, but that is my itty bitty perspective from the simpler mind of me…my deepest respect and gratitude for all those involved here…for keeping my juices flowing…i have learned so much from you all…unlike grey, pretty much all of my spirtual awareness is through the experience of ecstatic joy, so please forgive my lack of deeply intellectual contribution, but to participate here with all of you is helps me to integrate these amazing experiences…

with grace…S.

Julian : integral healer
2 days later
Julian said

what gets my juices flowing?

a) raw vulnerable honesty.

b) incisive intelligent clarity

c) extraordinary talent honed to precise and beautiful creativity that stirs deep feeling of the universals of the human condition.

d) this extremely beautiful dialog

Julian : integral healer
2 days later
Julian said

elektroglide this is all good.

delia i will have to go over everything in the morning to find out what you are pointing to….. viz he and i disagreeing - i think we havce different foci and perhaps diffferent areas of experience.

i love what you have brought here…

Delia : rara avis
2 days later
Delia said

sa'rah, i agree. those awakening experiences are remarkable and often challenging to find words for despite our greatest efforts. alas! alack! :)

yes, i might find the 2nd person experience baffling, too, were it not a large part of my spiritual awakening and continued ongoing awakening.

first off, as i mentioned in an earlier comment, i too find the notion of God as a second “person” kind of funny. that is not what is meant in this discussion of that concept, however. what is meant by “second person” is not what God is. it is about how we experience and engage with God.

let me provide an example (though rather crude…do forgive me…it's a bit late where i am).

let's say you have a puppy. and you love this puppy. you adore this puppy and relate with this puppy and all of its wonderful antics and quirky habits. let's say you begin to really, trul and genuinely fall in love with this puppy. you only want to care for this puppy, see to its needs, nurture it, give to it, care for it, cuddle it, and love it.

wonderful. healthy. yes?

okay. so let's say one day you begin to talk with the puppy, and tell him how wonderful he is and how adoreable he is. you begin to notice all his responses to your affection and you relish the interaction. you talk to him more. you teach him tricks or commands, all conveyed verbally and with intonation (for the most part). you notice how responsive he is to these commands. you talk with him more. you think about him when you are at work. you talk about him with your family. with your friends. with anyone on the subway or bus who also has a puppy and wants to share in the puppy love.

this all seems fairly normal and healthy. yes?

this is a “second person” experience of God.

has that puppy become a “second person?” hellz no. that puppy is still a puppy.

has that puppy evolved linguistically and now understands every word you are saying? probably not. he is probably responding mostly to your facial expressions, intonations, and physical body language.

nevertheless, you continue to be devoted to your wonderful puppy, and engage in a “second person” relationship with that puppy, not once expecting to come home from work one day and find that your puppy has turned into a literal “second person.”

it is (in essence), the same with God. God is what God is. God is. Spirit is. the Self is. how we relate with God/Spirit/Self is entirely up to us. we are not going to change God by how we love Him/Her/That. Yet there is something very rich and deeply beautiful and heart opening about relating with God in a “second person” (anthropomorphic?) manner.

and it has been my personal experience that God doesn't mind. the same way that puppy doesn't mind.

and since i admittedly have philosophical and spiritual leanings toward Kashmir Shaivism, and the inclusive perspective that everything is God…Sa'rah, for me, that puppy really is God, and can at the very least give you a direct experience of God. Especially, if that puppy is the thing you love most in all the world. If that is the case, then that puppy is a pure reflection of your heart and can open you to a deep experience of your own divinity and true nature.

hope that is assistful, gurrrlfriend. and i hear you on the attention span thing…let's just say…you are not alone. thank god, for meditation and practice, eh?  :)

and nonsense with this self-effacing “i have a itty bitty perspective from the simpler mind of me.” you have a wonderful mind and keen perception.

pshaw! on being intimidating by intellectual hoosiwhats and jargon masters (no names! no names! ekg! no names! ah, hah, hah, hah!)

;) lol!


p.s. julian,
a) yes!
b) yes!
c) yes!
d) ah, yes!
e) simple, humble compassion
f) bold, steadfast devotion
g) ordinary equanimity
h) quiet everything-ness
i) mantra

:)

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
2 days later
Grey said

Very well said, Delia.  I was just about to post a comment along those same lines, but it wouldn't have been nearly as well put as yours.

I just wanted to add, about Sa'Rah's comments on “third-person … nature”, that there, too, it depends on how you relate to nature as to whether that's a third-person or a second-person spiritual relationship.  What third person means here is more an “objective” perspective than an “interpersonal” one, so if you are loving nature and relating with it from a feelings perspective, I'd say that's second person, not third person.

Sa'Rah : Ordered Chaos
2 days later
Sa'Rah said

om namah shivaya, delia…so eloquent…i thank you…but i suppose what i imagine(d) is that that puppy is somewhere on some continuum between self and Self…and i definitaly understand your experience of it…hmmm…something is clicking…i think i am getting it a bit more…the experience of it lies a bit more in a second-person-eque way in its expression?…the humble (perhaps there is a better word to insert here) approach to reinforce further expression, maybe?…a bit like the way Grey is speaking of one way of relating to nature (as when these experiences arise, this is when the feelings (ie gratitude) also arise)…the way we relate to an outer reality?…i am extra careful in trying to maintain connection with ground, sometimes writing off these experiences…but i think i understand your not-so crude example here…

…and i am not trying to be self effacing…it is true that i have little experience with this level and depth of conversation about such matters…my persective is small (in the grand scheme of things)…and my mind is simple (when it comes to the ability to reference and communicate ideas at the scale the other participants can…but i can definitaly think!…and thats why i am here :o)…)…nonetheless, i appreciate your kind words and support!

and grey…i appreciate the distinction…but then i am somewhat lost about a third person objective experience of God…you mention it can be a love of the planet (gaia-esque)…but how is that not feeling based?…does it lie more in acknowlegement of its existance?…i dunno…i would love it if you would please elaborate…

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
2 days later
Grey said

Not sure that I can.  I'm sort of elaborating this for myself as I go. I think that my reference to Gaia was perhaps misleading because I'm realizing now that it can encompass both second and third person perspectives. I'm thinking of third-person more in the sense of objective, so I guess we could say that when we're looking at Gaia, the ecosystem, etc. as a system that we can observe externally, see how that is an expression of Spirit, and relate to it objectively in that sense, then that is a third-person perspective.

Does that make sense?

Grey : Integral Ideator (I-I)
2 days later
Grey said

OK, my contribution for the week is online! Enjoy!

Grey

ldgussin : Writer, mostly
2 days later
ldgussin said

MrTeacup

I respect (but dispute) a pov that calls western culture irrelevant, and so looks elsewhere, to Buddhism, etc. My point–I'll be brief, as my comment in fact opens a new topic–is that talk of an east-west sythesis floods this movement, but the “west” brought to the table is hard science (wave-particle physics especially) and a rational analysis defined by social science and postmodern theory. Even your comment is framed by the terms “constructs” and “narratives.” This is western self-definition anchored, I'll claim, in self-disgust due to present day circumstances and recent history. It ignores the core of western culture, that ongoing wrestle with an angel… with its hard dreams about god, secularism, and justice.

Is a true contemplation of western culture not part of the shadow work that westerners, at least, might want to undertake?

Hokai : In Absentia
2 days later
Hokai said

L.D., excellent point.

Julian : integral healer
2 days later
Julian said

LDG

yea!

i often laugh at how the very evolutions that so define the western story are what even allowed us in the first place to go post-conventional and look to the east - to overcome the taboo of otherness and be interested in the worldviews/spirituality of other cultures - and yet what ofetn happens is that then there's a rejection of the very developments that gave us that abiltiy/permission and even at times an embrace of the traditionalist values that in some ways are the very conventional values we have had to move beyond to even go to the east.

i find in the yoga community nd the guru crowd a real fetish for orthodoxy that seems to forget just how counterculture/postconventional (in some ways) the genesis of this particular kinf of east -west encounter was…

i am right there with you: i love campbel's way of looking at the east and west and being very clear that it is ONLY the ideas that we can trace back to the greeks (ie not the middle or far eastern core ideas) that give us the powerful combination democracy, romantic love, self-actualization, humanism, reason being valued over faith, etc that underly the very important western cutting edge…

i would love to hear from you a little on the history of narrative and the arising of the protaganist with an inner life that matters to us in literature.

Bjorn : One Mind
2 days later
Bjorn said

Julian,


Integrative Spirituality: Grounded Contemporary Perspectives.

I just read through the title again and wanted to add my thoughts about its meaning.

Integrative Spirituality, a holistic approach to spiritual practice? I like your broad approach to learn from a wide range of sources, ranging from ancient to new. This in my mind is all about learning and growing as an human.


Grounded Contemporary Perspectives, views based in personal experience expressed in modern language?

And to be truly Integrated we would have to be able to unravel Truth throughout history and see its relevance today. Avoidance will not do. But I believe you're with me on that one Julian?

ldgussin : Writer, mostly
2 days later
ldgussin said

Julian, I'm going to think for a few days about how best to provide what you ask for.

Some readers may know that I've just published a literary novel, set at a holistic retreat. Anyone who follows my profile to my blog will see a post titled “The Holistic Movement As A Literary Subject.” It tries to cover the holistic (human potential, call it what you will) slash literary divide from the other angle: arguing to the literary culture that this movement, which it ignores, matters. So, Mr Teacup will find me in partial agreement with one of his claims.

I have an off-Zaadz bookblog and the novel (The Seeker Academy) an Amazon landing page, which interested readers can link to from my Zaadz blog.

Julian : integral healer
2 days later
Julian said

agreed bjorn!

lgd thanks for the heads-up on those ways of interacting with your work - i love the essay and am just into the first chapter of your very interesting book…

MrTeacup : Celestial Accounts Receivable Dept.
2 days later
MrTeacup said

L.D.,

I don't deny that western self-disgust plays some role in the rejection of our traditional cultural products, but I don't think its the main reason. I think the post-modern critique has not been fully accepted by Western artists who view themselves as part of a tradition, and for good reason: the post-modern critique was vastly over-stated. One of the goals of the integral project is to move past it while including what legitimate truths it contains. Spiral Dynamics in particular allows us to accept western ethnocentrism as tragic but in some ways unavoidable by-product of the most enlightened worldview available at the time without endorsing it and working to move past it in the present. For me growing up in post-colonial Africa, post-modernism's black-and-white picture seemed simplistic compared with the complex racial dynamics that I saw. For one thing, the oppressed people of Africa are far more eager to forgive the West than white Americans in the grip of post-modernist dogma are, and far more accepting of the gifts of the West.

Integral theory is also quite big on German Idealism and continental philosophy in general, and many of those philosophers have a lot of relevance, for example: Kant, Nietzsche, Heidegger, Schelling, Kierkegaard, Hegel. I think you'll find that of the various projects that attempt an east-west synthesis, Integral theory is much more inclusive of Western enlightenment.

Hokai : In Absentia
2 days later
Hokai said

MrTeacup, good point. That's perhaps the main reason Integral theory is being accepted in both camps, eastern and western, here in the West, as long as they can see their way out of their particular -isms.

Julian : integral healer
2 days later
Julian said

itt's geting deep in here - now we're into the postmoderns and the german idealists - 108 comments later….

i love it!

stay tuned y'all elektroglide is about to bring his unique voice into the temenos…..

i think we are each gonna have to do a round-up post at the end of this week and reflect on what we have each been processing through the dialog and each others posts….

should be pretty juicy!

adam : revolution
2 days later
adam said

yo bloggers

i'll be posting some time tomorrow afternoon usa time. i definitely overdid it yesterday!

Julian : integral healer
3 days later
Julian said

ok adam - but get it up soon so we can keep the momentum going!

delia this is great:


p.s. julian,
a) yes!
b) yes!
c) yes!
d) ah, yes!
e) simple, humble compassion
f) bold, steadfast devotion
g) ordinary equanimity
h) quiet everything-ness
i) mantra

:)

adam : revolution
3 days later
adam said

“get it up soon so we can keep the momentum going!”

as the actress said to the bishop…

soon come

Julian : integral healer
3 days later
Julian said

ahhhh i should have read that before i posted it…. :OP

i am imagining a second symposium about altered states and energetic process. something like Grounded Contemporary Perspectives on Energetic Process and Altered States , or maybe Riding The Dragon…

thinking about delia, sa'rah, christiana, jim and I…. any of the existing magnificent 7 interested in participating in that one?

i am looking at may 28th…

Lucidity : Designer of Life
3 days later
Lucidity said

I'm late in the game, but I was tickled to write. Also, the server was having a tough time posting my comment. It's really slowed down with the traffic I assume.

Julian what a wonderful beginning to your spiritual practices and guidelines for authentic transformation.  You're a wonderful writer and you make things very explicit for those who may be confused between true transformation and ones who just want a gimmicky and fast fix.

Julian…The difficulty of course comes in two forms: first, whether we realize it or not, most of us have fairly serious unresolved issues in these earlier chakra levels and second, many if not most people interested in spirituality have come to a spiritual path out of some kind of pain, suffering, longing for something that we do not have/feel. So spirituality actually is a bit of a magnet for wounded people. Now, if the kind of spirituality that is encountered is not integrative, it will likely perpetuate the very defenses (denial, rationalization, magical thinking) that are keeping the ego and the Self from being in an integrated fluid relationship.

So spirituality actually is a bit of a magnet for wounded people.

I have two different views about this statement.
We can say we are all wounded in one way or another. And being “attracted to spirituality” is a whole new set of discussions.  I mean we can spend a whole day on spiritual materialism. And people are attracted to spirituality for various reasons. I'm not so sure that “spirituality in itself is a magnet for wounded people”.

I'm glad to know people seek spiritual answers rather than finding some fullfillment in addictions like abusive relationships, addictions to drama, etc. Because more than likely they will find that they will have to seek the answers within themselves, especially if they are required to meditate and sit.

What bothers me is that you see these “wounded people” as victims.
I might be reading between the lines too much, let me know.
I get red flags when other people start talking about “wounded people” that has vitimization written all over it. And that these “wounded people” need help. Granted, we all have our issues, but we certainly don't “need” someone who thinks they can fix things for us. Also victimization takes two, the master and slave relationship. Both are equally bad. Most of the time we blame the abuser, but the abused is also a catalyst in the dynamics as well. Certainly, “wounded people” may likely fall under the traps of abusive teacher/student relationships, but again that's another dialog I think that needs more depth. Certain behaviors and patterns of thinking are clues why they fall prey to abusive relationships, which needs to be addressed.

But I certainly don' t think that it is the case if we are regular meditators and truly spend time with our own minds. If someone is in an abusive relationship it certainly brings into light their sense of autonomy.

ON ATHEISM
I think most people already touched on your atheist stance so I'm not going to repeat it other than I see you are associating atheism as counter acting “magical thinking”. I think that's a limited argument. Your argument that some sort of existential experience can be used as a catapult to atheism is also I think misleading. One can still be a theist and experience an existential crisis. One of the most famous critics and interpreter of existentialism since Sartre was a theist. (though I forget his name, sorry)

I really enjoyed your essay especially “Distinctions”  and “Compassion and Codependence”. Great stuff and am looking forward to reading more of your practices.

MrTeacup : Celestial Accounts Receivable Dept.
3 days later
MrTeacup said

Lucidity, if you don't mind me interjecting my thoughts, I think many people are realizing that meditation and spiritual practice is not a substitute for therapy. Hokai, in the following dialog, references David Deida in making a distinction therapy, yoga and spiritual practice, noting that they actually have very little in common. People who are suffering a great deal are naturally drawn to spiritual traditions that promise the end of suffering, but may be disappointed to learn that personal happiness is not the goal of meditation. It can even be harmful to them to pursue a spiritual path without dealing with the ego's dysfunctions. I think that a by-product of spiritual practice is developing some skills in dealing with the ego – nonattachment, mindfulness – but spiritual practice does not require you to use them. Some traditions actively discourage trying to fix the ego, because it can be a form of attachment. Several books have been written after many serious, long-time meditators discovered that many deep-seated issues remained lurking in their psyche even after many years of practice. One is called The Wisdom of Imperfection by Robert Preece.

If this phenomenon can be found among Buddhist practitioners, its probably even more common among the much broader population of spiritual people, many of whom do not commit themselves to daily spiritual practice to see through the ego, and for whom New Age magical beliefs are compelling.

Julian : integral healer
3 days later
Julian said

mr t thats dead on.

lucidity thanks for your generous compliments!

good to see you here.

well the victim thing is tricky.

when we say that adults are not victims we are invoking the reality of the unconscious. this means that in certain situations we are co-creating the thing we are upset about unconsciouslly through old patterns that are unresolved. the uncosncious is trying to resolve the odl patter/feeling/trauma by getting enatngled in dynamics that are reminiscent fo what needs healing/awareness.

in these cases it is entirely appropriate to look at “your part” in it and this is what psychotherapy and certain approaches to meditation actually help us to do brilliantly - see what is going on under the surface, look into our shadow material instead of projecting it wholesale onto others.

however - still talking about adults here - consider the case of the man unfairly held in guantanamo bay because some pakistani warlord sold him to the U.S. as a terrorist suspect. under the revoking of habeus corpus (the right to due process of law) that bush enacted last year. this man is not allowed to know what the evidence against him is - so he cannot defend himself - nor was he given a trial until he had been held for 5 years and tortured. let's say we accept the details of his account as true (there are millions of similar stories accross time and place) - this man is a victim of circumstance and has suffered terribly through no fault no part of hi own. this is life this is one of the existential ass-kickers - bad things happen to good people all the time through no fault of their opwn and there is no higher metaphysical reason for it. it can't be candy coated. 911 is another obvious example right - were those 3000 people not victims?

now - let's move on to children.

the adult who is upset about something that they are co-creating unconsciously 9 times out of ten is trying to work through a childhoood dynamic or event - by definition that's why we are inconsciously drawn into certain situation as adults (because of events form our past that are unresolved) the easy example is the stripper, right? it's her choice and yet perhaps we see the immense suffering, the drugs, the low self esteem, the complaints about the abusive boss, the failed relationships, the slide into prostitution etc… now while there are doubtless many possible AQAL variables viz social coonditions, gender discrimination, economic factors, brain chemistry, the difficulty of getting out of the underworld once your in it - we can still look at the element of it that is self-created and say - she is not a victim - she has chosen to be there.

while that is partially true we look then at why she may be co-creating her situation and end up perforce looking at her childhood and what do we find?

let's say she was molested by an uncle and given the message by all the other men around her that she was valued primarily as a beautiful, precocious sex object.

i dont' think she created that. she was an innocent child with a praticular set of genetics growing up among people she did not choose.


she is a victim of circumstance and wether or not she heals/grows/breaks the cycle has much more to do with what i call the trauma/resource ratio than with any judgmental evaluation of her spiritual strength of character/intention.

now when i say that spirituality is a magnet for wounded people and when mr t points out that the new age has very little if any practice orientation, what we find is that this non-integrative spiritual philosophy  is easily understood  as being a defense against acknowledging that there are victims, that terrible things do happen to thers through no fault of their own and could happen to any of us right now given the right circumstances - many of which are beyond our control.

the further we travel from the realms of priviledge that all of us here inhabit the more we see that most of the world is pretty powerless in the face of money, corrupt politics, dysfunctional society, toxic family dynamics etc and that it is a tiny percentage who are not victimized.

now the non-integrative answer to this is to come up with a belief system that insists that if i close my eyes when they are in front of me certain things don't exist, or that everything is happening for some higher reason, even the little boy who just got his arms blown off in iraq in the last 5 seconds.

the integrative approach and particularly the existential honesty piece i am allluding to says no - that is untrue and insulting to the reality of the human condition. true spiritual practice does and  should help us to be more honest about what is, not justify denial and rationalization. we learn to sit with pain and suffering and find that it is actually the dooorway into freedom - and over time the candy coated metaphysical fantasies lose their allure and are seen for just what they are….

as to your last comments: my defintion of a full blown existential initiation is one in which we accept tha facts of life, one of which for me is that the amber/blue mythic membership god has no objective existence. on the other side of that and working through all of the questions/fears we have tried to hold at bay with that level of religious belief i am quite confident that a grounded spirituality and even devotional religious attitude can emerge that has integrated at the next level.

i would love to respond viz the philosopher whose name you have forgotten - let me know if it comes to you.

peace and thanks for the multi-faceted commentary.

~julian

adam : revolution
3 days later
adam said

my entry is online

pull up a chair folks - here's some more of my poetry

you might want to get a cup of tea first…

Julian : integral healer
4 days later
Julian said

bob is up in the morning - stay tuned he's an integral somatic mind-body dude extraordinaire!

Michael : catalyst-producer
4 days later
Michael said

BEING understood as a way to focus the mind enough to go under the defensive omnipotent fantasies into the places of vulnerability wherein lies the true gift - our disowned aspects of self …

acceptance and the kind of mirroring that allowed a strong sense of self to be internalized …

Authentic confidence will develop over time from learning how to be present and loving with the insecure part of yourself …

Healthy anger sets boundaries, communicates violations, expresses moral outrage. Healthy anger can be channeled into hard work, creativity, passionate engagement. Healthy anger can create real intimacy - because it is honest and direct. Toxic anger is usually tied to some kind of repressive cycle such that it builds up and needs to be discharged either by out of proportion reactivity or passive agression. Healthy anger is a function of ego-strength. Toxic anger is usually part of an ego-defense …


As we engage in practices that allow development and healing to occur, INSIGHT arises. INSIGHT IS distinct from belief in one simple way: belief is an outside-in phenomenon.  INSIGHT IS as the word suggests an inside-out phenomenon.

ldgussin : Writer, mostly
4 days later
ldgussin said

“the arising of the altered state awakenings and psychophysical phenomena attributed in the East to Kundalini and in the West to the somato-psychic wave, somatic discharge, unwinding etc…”

Julian,

Talk of  “altered states” (I'm writing a review of the new history of Esalen, which also talks of this a lot) confuses me. Personally, I've had enough dreams and LSD and wine  and experiences becoming transfixed by art to believe human attentiveness has a wide range and can be way poetic. I also know that a very old story tells us that great suffering can lead to spiritual rebirth, but that (from Holocaust chroniclers) this great suffering is more often just itself.

I'll suggest here (after noting again that you equate “the West” with psychological theory… rather than, citing one alternative, Greek myths) that the idea of and importance paid to “altered states” builds from a degraded present day sense of what the normative human state is. Greek drama had Apollo and Dionysis slugging it out onstage. Viewers were attentive, entranced, engaged, enthralled, and maybe high. But they saw themselves in a normative rather than in an altered state.

Bob : Head the gong
4 days later
Bob said

Ouch, my centaur hurts. My contribution to the symposium is up.

I’m going for a walk. I might come back. ;o)

Bob : Head the gong
4 days later
Bob said

J-Dub,

I finally have a little spare time to get into the mix. How do you people do it! Just keeping up with all the comments is a full-time job for me.

Anyway, I wanted to ask you about your use of the term “unwinding.” I’m curious because I do a very idiosyncratic practice that’s evolved over many years that I call “unwinding.” Basically, I just lie on the floor, on my back, and do nothing. I inhibit any and all voluntary movements as I wait for anything that feels involuntary, any movement that feels as if it’s happening of it’s own accord. For the first several minutes I may only get a few twitches, but eventually, if I hone in enough, a whole series of movements will begin to emerge, and I follow them wherever they go, as long as the sense that it’s all “just happening” is driving the action. After a while, I might be bouncing all over the room, or end up on top of the refrigerator (this has actually happened!).

The sense I get from these movement meditations is that I’m literally unwinding various patterns of tension and inhibition, like the way a twisted rubberband will follow its way back to its slack form in precisely the reverse pattern with which it became twisted. At the end of this unwinding I feel incredibly clear and free, and I’m often showered with insights for hours.

It’s pretty wild, although I can’t force any of it. Also, I only do this practice every once in awhile, when the mood strikes. I’ve never tried it in a disciplined way.

Anyway, I’m wondering if you have any experience with or insight into this kind of thing.

–Bob

Julian : integral healer
4 days later
Julian said

yes!!

exactly - my sense is that it's an innate mecahnism hat when we are relaxed and open enough and have worked through enough of the chronic restrictions arises naturally.

your metaphor of the rubber band is exactly the one is use in explaining it.

i also obsevre that spontaeous monements like the one's you are describing are part of the esoteric levels of yoga, bodywork, tantra and other cross-cultural and time period practices.

what my training and research had revealed is that there are four variables:

1) biochemistry (which has to do with toxicity in the blood/tissue and healthy organ function)
2) physical traumas (scar tissue, broken bones, surgeries etc)
3) emotional traumas/contractions (our biography held in the body)
4) biomechanics (the way our genetics and tension patterns from repetitive motion and all three of the above show up in our posture)

as these four variables are processed the natural acccess emerges to the innate unwinding mechanism that releases stress and tension and resets a sense of aliveness, responsiveness, groundedness, self-acceptance etc…

check out this amazing piece on kundalini and it's cross-cultural similars by stuart sovatsky.

Bob : Head the gong
4 days later
Bob said

You gotta be kidding me! I had long presumed the unwinding process was my discovery. I was in the process of getting it trademarked (just kidding).

The Sovatsky article is great. I really had no idea anyone else was thinking about this stuff in quite this way.

Humbling and pretty awesome.

–Bob

Mushin : We-full
4 days later
Mushin said

I guess if you guys check out this video (see the full 19 min. for a full ride) you might see that is can - and has - evolve into a veritable way which I've been on for quite a while now.

I even try an explanation, though its primitive in comparison to the Sahaj Yoga link you gave - thank you so much, jULIAN!

Bob : Head the gong
4 days later
Bob said

I enjoyed the video, Mushin. Your explanation of the Dynamic Presencing process makes perfect sense to me. I especially like the way you described the shifts of foreground and background. I had not thought of it in that way before. I’m happy to know others are exploring these kinds of experiences and making them available to others.

Julian : integral healer
4 days later
Julian said

ja - you linked me to this before mushin - and it is beautiful on a second viewing too!

amazing space to be in with people.


i have an ecstatic dance community i participate in every sunday - maybe 200 people and there are little pauses of stillness as part of the ride - when the music is washy and meditative and everyone moves so slowly through the space and does tai chi speed contact improv and sit or stand transfixed or enact gestures of affection, seduction, reverence - quite profound…

Still : Stilltraveler
4 days later
Still said

Hi - I want to get briefly into the mix, if briefly is actually possible with so much here.

I'm surprised how much fun exchange is - the depth, breadth, intensity that doesn't feel ponderous or intimidating, and the relevance to life as surviving functioning organism and life as human mind  (and I appreciated the comments on what mind might be and might not be) are excitingly full for me, here. You folks are speeding up my learning process of how to evaluate what is being said around me and how to communicate how I think of things.

I have thus far only read a little over half way through the comments, and I need to write something, now, or my window of intention may close. I want to feel the heat of the herd.

I appreciated so many of the comments and commenters. I think I want to weigh in with the views elektroglide, jim, and julian. I apparently lean more towards their kind of logic and language than that of a 2nd person, well, personal relationship with 'spirit' . If I had had a significant 2nd person devotional experience, there is a good chance that I'd want to cheer for that reality.

Maybe somewhat like Julian in moments, I often tend to think of personal, historical psychological, explanations. I also tend to think about how we have developed through our individual histories in interaction with our surrounding world and how similar dynamics are often at play in larger social, like international, actions and how the fascinating-to-me exterior quadrants play out  - how these usually load me up plenty and I don't feel the need, inclination, or uninvited presence of Spirit or God. As I write this I fear that this could be flatland - but hey, Still, there is plenty of richness in my world.

Elektroglide - “does anyone else see the importance of conscious and precise language use - including definitions, conventions, grammar, context relatedness - in the discussion of metaphysical philosophy?”
Yes I do. We have enough difficulty with different histories and therefore necessarily different views of the world, since we usually see through the lens of our experience. Add to that a quite spotty agreement and divergence in the meaning of the words we use, and its a surprise that we do as well as we do. A word may have several denotated meanings and many connotations. Mary chooses 'C' to emphasize and Alice chooses 'F', and it may be a while before one of them goes, “Oh, what do you mean by the word 'mind', 'psyche', 'spirit', or 'intelligence'?” Yeah. But who wants to lay down the meaning of important themes at the outset? Who has the patience or who cares enough? Probably usually not me, until we are stuck on something that might actually be important to me.

To take this tangent further, briefly, it seems that some words take a tour of meanings through the years and at some point come to mean the opposite of their root derivation. I'm thinking momentarily of the convention that most of us use and that Julian used early on in his presentation of contrasting a meaning that is “symbolic” or “literal”. Like maybe, “Do you mean that you were literally 'up to your knees in ____'? - or is that metaphoric?” My understanding of literal has to do with alphabetic letters, which are symbolic. So, though we all usually know what is meant, I get a funny little distraction when I read it because it sounds as, “Do you mean that symbolically or symbolically?” So then I say what word do I use? How about “actual”? Well doesn't that mean having to do with action? How about really? Existentially? God - choosing proper words that communicate is tedious? Excuse the fetishistic tangent.

Julian, I followed how you laid out this large territory - slicing though from the angles that you did. As others mentioned, I liked the spiritual bypass described.

I like how you gave the three orienting meanings for “chakra system” that inform you. Both b and c seem common usages that I have often found confusing and annoying - “b) a way of talking about how the inward experience of the body in a particular physical area resonates emotions and energetic qualities, and c) a metaphorical/imaginal way of talking about mind-body matrix and it's developmental and healing processes.” It reminds of a couple of disciplines that I have dabbled in and haven't been able to pursue because the idealized process was presented as a formulary journey or hard wiring that one just tapped into and exercised. I'm thinking of the chakra work of Kriya, the “microcosmic orbit” of some tantric systems, and the vipassana exercises taught at a monastery in Thailand.

My guess was that in Kriya, many people didn't know quite where and how the this point was, and yet I never heard anyone really admit to the transmitting teacher that they didn't really know what the heck they were doing. My further guess is that many people overlay a virtual map over the body and energy sense, and the map is definitely not the territory, nor usually is the experience the same as the original one that was come upon. But the virtual map eventually becomes familiar and manipulable in marvelous ways as it interfaces quirkily with our real senses and functionings. And, by george, I've got it. Keep the folks busy and they will get into less mischief in the world, become more focused, and maybe they'll trip and fall into a rabbit hole.

Perhaps because I don't have a consistently coherent and agentic self-expression, I still have doubts about the dictum, “You have to have a 'self', before you can give it up.” other than that this is obviously true by definition. As someone else questioned a bit, I really don't know whether a person has to have a strong self or ego to reside much in non-duality, marvelous relative states, and if navigating everyday life without much grace and barely adequate efficacy isn't OK. Who's to say?

I was gonna watch Miss Congeniality tonight, but instead I got stuck with this stuff.
Smiles.
Still traveler - a pre-existing fake-it-til-I-make-it designation

Sa'Rah : Ordered Chaos
4 days later
Sa'Rah said

so…i am left wondering…is this unwinding considered an altered state?…or just a deeper experience of a grounded one?…because it seems like the interpretation has a lot to to integration and i go through this at least once a day…so it would be interesting to hear some perspective on that…

Mushin : We-full
5 days later
Mushin said

Sa'rah, if what Bob describes as unwinding is similar to what I would call “dynamic presencing” than some of the states that it can and does lead to are very much different from what is a 'normal state', so much so that functioning in pretty normal situations can be impeded for hours after one has left the 'depth' of the state - don't drive a car!

Question is, of course, is a “grounded state” an “altered state” since probably people are in it not all too often; or do you see many people in the grounded state walking the ground of an ordinary street? ;)
If by grounded you mean a state in which you have the feeling that you have “come home” than the states accessed through the mentioned 'methods' are sometimes called just that by those reporting back from being there.

I have made it into a practise to let the state interpret itself… that is, when in a normal state remembering the “a.s.” I don't inquire but listen… like opening up to a dear friend, curious what he's been up to and what his stories are.

Hope this helps…

Julian : integral healer
5 days later
Julian said

great reflections still! thank you.

sa'rah and mushi - my sense is that unwinding is definitely an altered state, in the same way that meditation, orgasm, ecstatic dance etc are altered states.

altered in the sense that you are not in everyday functioning mode - you are in process, in sacred space.

the reason we need sacred spaces set aside from everyday life is because we are taking an inner journey, letting down defenses, going into experience outside of ordinary functioning and persona reality…

now of course on the other side of the altered state process, on might well feel even more able to be in a steady, open, responsive stady state, but i thihnk we call it an altered state in this case for two reasons:

1) because we take a ride of unusual intensity into a way of experiencing that builds in intensity and then wanes to find oursleves in a more familiar steady state….

2) because it is a process of rebalancing/healing /releasing contractions and blocked energy….

Sa'Rah : Ordered Chaos
5 days later
Sa'Rah said

got it…guess it is not the best to be driving during these releases although sometimes it did happen…much less now that some of that energy that just HAD to go, has left…and you are right…sometimes best not to intellectualize too much…and, julian you drive the point home…thank you both… 

and j…feist doing nina simone…oh yeah.

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